i would like to have known what KANINAG was going to say as well. we all come to these forums for help and advice because the problems we bandsters have are not exactly something you can talk about with just anyone. this place is a lifeline for me, and im sure it is for others as well. and by gosh if you need to bitch and moan then we are all here for eachother! this is a life-altering, HARD change and sometimes it sucks!! so if ya dont have anything nice to say, and ya cant be supportive, dont say anything at all! :huh2: