Sorry to bump this after a month, but I'm new here. I just wanted to ask if you found it difficult finding other poly people and if not, how do you do it? I am completely open about it. I'm still finding it impossible. I just have this uncanny ability to find girls who are totally ok with it for the first month then suddenly, one day, try to stab me for looking at another woman. Do you have any tips for dealing with that? lol