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Like I said before, she lets you in parts of her life. Parts she wants you to see and hear about. You dont really know them until you are physically there. Otherwise its easy to live double lives. All compartmentalized. Does she send you pics and videos of her and her fiance snuggling on the couch? How about them eating out and having fun? If not, then why not? Because she wants to be the damsel in distress. Poor her. She neeeeds you. You cant leave! She will have nobody! In reality she has people around her and likes to be wanted by everybody. If she was head over heels for you she would have made it a point to see you face to face. Years have passed and still no physical contact. She wants what she wants and that isnt being with you. Sucks, but you cant blame it on finances for that many years. You are her secret play thing. And you let yourself be that. So you cant be mad at her. You know that saying that people only treat you the way you let them treat you. Sent from my SM-G930P using the BariatricPal App

You never met her in person, correct? Sent from my SM-G930P using the BariatricPal App

Dont think that you would be her only girlfriend irl. Sounds like an opportunistic cheater to me. If she loved you and not him, she would break up with him. You are hundreds and hundreds of miles away. You are a fantasy, he is her reality. Dont think they dont text, talk, have sex all the time. She tells you what she wants you to believe to keep up her fantasy. Sent from my SM-G930P using the BariatricPal App

I wait just for my body to absorb and digest and not flush it faster. Sent from my SM-G930P using the BariatricPal App

*not going to be more than what you are Sent from my SM-G930P using the BariatricPal App

Sounds like she is lying to you, him and herself. Either is a liar, cheater or just a user. She is one or more of thise things. She is either using you because she gets her kicks with fantasizing with you knowing full well you are necer going to be more than what you are right now. She will talk to you when she has time and be a catfish type of thing. But in her real world she wants to be married. Why else and how else could she be in a 2yr relationship heading to the altar? You are not in her life. You are in the life she wants you to be in. She cuts and pastes what she wants you to know or make you believe. You may think you know her very well. But she may have you bamboozled just as much as her soon to be husband. Sent from my SM-G930P using the BariatricPal App

20years the first time. You? Sent from my SM-G930P using the BariatricPal App

Not a bad choice! Good for mcds I would say! Sent from my SM-G930P using the BariatricPal App

Is there a procedure to get rid of those old stretch marks that are fully faded but clearly you can see them? Sent from my SM-G930P using the BariatricPal App

For irritation and sweat, I use antiperspirant. Yep. Under both arms, and under boobs if its really hot and any fold or crease. Sent from my SM-G930P using the BariatricPal App

I'm so not a woman in front of the camera person lol. But thank you. I watch Nirvana too, but there is something I cant relate to her. I guess its the paranoia if her multiple wls left her at 300lbs, it could happen to me? Not sure. I still watch though. Sent from my SM-G930P using the BariatricPal App

It'll be ok. I started at 389 and my 10 day visit, I dropped 10lbs. So dont beat yourself up over it. Sent from my SM-G930P using the BariatricPal App

Thanks. I have them on my forearm and it drives me nuts. Sent from my SM-G930P using the BariatricPal App

I like cheese sticks. 1oz portions and doesn't make me need Water asap Sent from my SM-G930P using the BariatricPal App

Wait. You're two weeks post op and literally advising people to eat bread?I did not advise anyone to eat bread I asked the question can I have bread and if not why.....Follow the entire post not just my beginning statement from my own personal experience.....You said to take a bite of wheat bread and walk away. Sent from my SM-G930P using the BariatricPal App *or healthy whole grain. Sent from my SM-G930P using the BariatricPal App

What was the question you were left with? Seems like you were answering. Sent from my SM-G930P using the BariatricPal App

Congratulations! Love that flirty top. Sent from my SM-G930P using the BariatricPal App

My surgeon did the same, asked me. Sent from my SM-G930P using the BariatricPal App

You look great. This is why I hate plus size womans clothes. They make the cutest women look matronly. Sent from my SM-G930P using the BariatricPal App

I didnt see one doctor for about 6 months. When he saw me he screamed my name and gave me a big bear hug in the waiting room yelling how amazing I looked. Mind you I was about 80lbs down, but firmly in the 300s. But it made my month. He was so good about pushing me in a really good way to do something about the weight. Sent from my SM-G930P using the BariatricPal App

Good question! food wise is definitely coffee with real sugar and cream. Its a rare treat now. Usually I do splenda, but it has an empty sweetness and not really like my real coffee. I can easily go without cake, ice cream, Pasta but coffee with real sugar is it. Now when I do have it, its half of a cup and less sugar than I used to use. It is usually getting cold by the time I get half way through it anyway. Sent from my SM-G930P using the BariatricPal App

Yes, a pin, like a pierced earring, that can be put anywhere on the waistband. That's why I don't get it. Because it won't meet square with the buttonhole, there will either be bunched-up fabric or fabric pulled tight. No? Have you actually used these pins? I haven't. I dont see how it doesn't pop when you sit down. Sent from my SM-G930P using the BariatricPal App

No scale or weighing for me other than the drs office. I'm 4 months po. But was going to get one soon. Sent from my SM-G930P using the BariatricPal App

Immediately for me. Once off liquids. Sent from my SM-G930P using the BariatricPal App

No, its a pin that you put next to the original button. No sewing. My problem is waists way to large to the point of belts pushing it out of the way and i have gaps of skin followed by wads of jean waste material because of large butt and legs. No simple fix for that. Sent from my SM-G930P using the BariatricPal App