I was banded on 2-22-08 and have lost 21 pounds ( I though't I'd lose weight a little faster) It feels great to be 222 pounds and I am not complaining as I've never lost 21 pounds in 8 weeks before. However, I have been an attorney for 2 years a mom for 3 (I have a 3 1/2 year old and a 21 month old) and a wife for 6 years (but going on 13 together). All of the sudden, I have decided that maybe being an attorney isn't for me. I feel the same way I did when I had a touch of postpartum. I feel like I'm having a mid-life crisis at 28, second-guessing one of the biggest decisions in my life, being an attorney. Is this normal? Does anyone else feel like this?