I definitely have, first I only told my family. Then I confided in a friend from work who decided to get the same procedure. I didn't want it broadcast on Facebook or other social media as I follow a lot of acquaintances and fellow professionals in my field. I told 4 of my close friends the day before my surgery that I was having a surgery and that if anything happened to me I'd like them to know. I cried a little from the release of sharing even this little bit. One friend messaged me separately to inquire what the surgery was for as she was going into nursing. She also asked me why I decided on it, and was accepting and very supportive. I agree that there is a negative stigma and little education about the surgery. My final stance is to keep the people who know informed about my progress for support, but also to answer others honestly when they ask about my weight loss with additional education for them. My friend is a bit braver and posts on Facebook, it's a good way to get friends educated and get instant support on the progress that you post.
I'd say everyone is different and you need to do what's best for you. If you feel like you're hiding out of guilt that could also lead to setbacks in eating behaviors so be careful. It can be freeing to tell others and educate them.
However, as long as you have someone supporting you and you don't want others to know there are ways to answer the health nuts without lying. I made changes to my behaviors. Exercise, Protein, portions. Just remind yourself too that this surgery is part of a larger tool set that you needed and they didn't.
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