Bunkey1965

well said. we adults are responsible for ourselves. If you dont like it stay out of a subject line that will get you upset.

I would want to have my husband be there for the entire time and if he had a girl too he wouldnt feel left out. I woulnt want any intercourse just rubbing and using toys. But I think your spouse has to be your priority durring the entire event, lest any jelous issues pop up.

I am enjoying it! I am glad too here Iam not alone. Ieven let him shave me down there 3 days ago, then we watched porn all night. I have turned into a perv thats for sure. Congrats on getting your house privacy back. I love not worring who home.

I find myself wondering when I see a couple ar a good looking guy if they might be into the fantasy. I agree it needs to planned out good. I wouldnt want any jelous issues to come out. Also the persons would have to be clean and of equal good looks.

I too have been fantasizing about another person or couple into trying new things. I think weight loss has made me definatly hornier!

I even told my husband that I would try new things besides my vibrators. I offered to get a strap on.(a small one). He wants to try it. I also told him I wouldnt mind kissing another womans boobs. I have never been bi sexual but titties are no big deal to me. He was of course into that thought. But when I mentioned I want to perform oral for another guy or he says if some other dude was making me happy he couldnt deal with that. How come men are all down for the wife with another woman but not another guy. And how do you know if the other person is disease free. THAT would really scare me.

March 2008 October 2008 Banded April 1 2008 240/177/145

Please update me for the October month to 177-63 Thank you

Are you just feeling swollen bloated and fat or are you unhappy with the scar and the job the surgeon did? Almost everyone I have ever met didnt seem happy with their plastics until at least 6 months to a year out. Think about how long it took you to get to where you are at now. The 6 month to a year wait shouldnt seem that bad in comparison. I am also on the outside looking in as I have yet to go through what you are doing. But soon..

That guy is a stranger now. As for the pic of the stud... well you sure look ALOT closer to it than before.

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I have a 4cc band wuth 2.8 fill in it so far. I have had 3 fills. I would like a small one again as I can eat more and I stop myself (most of the time) so I can see a loss on the scale. Until weight loss is steady and your stopping with a little bit of food,(ONLY with proper restriction) you will be hungry too soon after eating and your amounts are increasing in what you take in. Unless you excersize. Then the extra calories you are consumming your burning off. Right now I have to use more will power than I would prefer.

You look great. I have been reading your posts for awhile now. You have accomplished quite alot. I find during this process, its hard to enjoy any successes very long. There is always "Thanks, but I still need...ect ect". How can we learn to ever really be happy with our body image?

I still love to cook and taste things. I just am thinking about it always cause I dont want the scale to go the other way. I am mostly good but I do have my madness creep in on me in the evening, Thats when I want to taste everything. If I do go a little over board I know its not to the leavel I did pre-banding. Im just really behaved for the next 3 days at least to even my weight out again or even maybe show a 1 pound loss.

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I find that I have mix up my calories have a few days of being on plan then have a day when Im not so careful. I do have those chicken nuggets maybe on day like that. Wendys 4 pc. is 190 BUT 110 of those calories are FAT calories. Darn those innocent looking nuggets. I feel real bad if I have that many fat calories in just four nuggets.

I have eaten a few bites too close together just swallowed and realized what I have in my mouth isnt going to go down o.k., so out it comes. Ill just quitely put it in a napkin. But olny when I feel what im chewing on isnt going down o.k. This shouldnt be a SUBSTUTION for eating.

Oct 1 180lbs 6 months out March 08 240 lbs Now I am uptodate with pictures. I feel soooo gooood.

Congrats Heather! I think wieght loss makes you more fertile. Its put my mostly non exsisting period to being monthly like clockwork.

I wanted to ask you Renewedhope when is it that you can see a doctor to plastis consults. I weigh 180 (240 @ surgery 4/1/08) and have been averaging about 10 pound a month loss. Charts at the doctors say I should weigh 110-125 for 5'3. I was looking to weigh 140-150. I am 43 and I think looking too thin looks bad when your older. ANYWAY.... I was thinking maybe when I get to get to 160 is when I go to the doctor. Some say to wait til my weight stablizes for a whole year. I didnt want to wait that long. Whats your take on this?

Down total of 60 as of 9/29/08 but this is taken in August when I was 191. Now I am down to 180. The top picture is before surgery in March of 2008 when I was 240..

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