Christinamo7

well, KF, there is that - but most handsome men do make me slightly nervous.

jane - I have been stuck on the front desk at work because we have had two people quit and I am definitely a "behind the scenes" person - I just feel like I am tripping over my tongue sometimes. all the time.

Nothing wrong with that...

It always feels worse than it is..

Unless it doesnt...

In which case you probably look really awkward!!!

Yes...

My work here is done...

I am the same way ("behind the scenes" person) and I understand how you feel working a front desk type spot. The thing is the more you sit there, the more comfortable you will feel about answering and being the first person people meet. I think when we are heavy it is another negative projection we feel is "out there" and it makes us even more self conscious when we are put in a highly "visible" spot. Some folks shine in the spotlight no matter what they weigh - some of us, unfortunately feel awkward. Just my opinion of course...