bigguy928

I'm really sorry to hear that! Im sure the people around me are gonna start showing their true colors after time. But it's all for the better I'm sure. Sent from my LG-D850 using Tapatalk

Have people made any comments regarding it? Have you had any intimate encounters since?

Hey Gibbs I feel the same exact way! Almost like I can't wait to tell off the people who wouldn't give me the time of day before and are all of a sudden interested. What happened with your friend if you don't mind me asking? What about your weight loss impacted the friendship? Sent from my LG-D850 using Tapatalk

Nice! How are you doing with the pre op diet? Sent from my LG-D850 using Tapatalk

I can't wait either! I'm visiting my parents and my mom read over all the material I brought for the surgery pre-op diet and made a great meal tonight. She gave me a few good tips too. Definitely feeling more confident now. Sent from my LG-D850 using Tapatalk

Thanks for the advice! What about stretch marks? Is there a good way to deal with that post op? Sent from my LG-D850 using Tapatalk

The community is so great. I wish everyone in he world could be like you guys here Sent from my LG-D850 using Tapatalk

I had that mentality too! I was gonna do whatever they asked with no questions. But I had a slip up with my diet today and had 2 pieces of candy. That's actually what brought me to the forum in the first place. I feel so much better and I have the end goal in mind. I won't beat myself up for slip ups. Sent from my LG-D850 using Tapatalk

Thank you! I've been reading for hours everyone has such interesting stories and advice. I really feel more at ease already. Sent from my LG-D850 using Tapatalk

Yeah I don't think I'm prepared for the questions. It really is no one's business but I do like the idea of simply telling people smaller portions because that wouldn't be a lie. I can also relate to overweight people being less receptive to the news. It's almost as if they're taking offense or are jealous that they aren't doing the same but I'm not stopping them! But I've gotten a lot of support from my fit/slim friends. Sent from my LG-D850 using Tapatalk

Lol I started my diet yesterday and have already cheated I'm gonna try and stay on track from here on but it's so hard! Sent from my LG-D850 using Tapatalk

So he's a hypocritical Christian preacher... He's a dime a dozen. Now I know there are two sides to every story but honey if he treats you that way and says those things to you considering your circumstances and health then there really is no need to know a second side. He's a jerk and I'm sorry that his true colors are starting to show after marriage. He cares more about his wants than he does about your needs. How is that in anyway fair to you? If you're determined to stay in this relationship which I highly advise against, then I suggest you seek couples counseling. Aside from that I would drop him ASAP. I know with marriage things get complicated but just know that the longer you stay the more complicated it becomes to leave and the worse it gets without some kind of help. There is no justification for his behavior and he's not being the loving husband he vowed to be to you through sickness.

What do you say to those people that ask? Sent from my LG-D850 using Tapatalk