"Just" Paul

I know and understand that there are good docs in Mexico, but the idea of going there for medical treatment frightens me, even dentistry. I assume you mean cosmetic dentistry. Make sure you research the doc really well, and if it doesn't frighten you, then go for it. I imagine it is substantially cheaper.

I think I'm gonna be sick. Why'd you make me look?

Rest, get out your heating pad, and rest. Then walk. It will get better, I promise. takes a little time to heal, but you will feel better in a few days or so.

Hey, I need a celebrity twin. any thoughts?

Mine completely fell off, almost lost it. Since I am Italian, I talk with my hands. Was talking to a friend and... whoosh... it flew off my hand and hit him in the face. Gotta get it resized, I think.

At least I'm not the only one who remembers Mike Douglas:heh:

Oh god... too much. LMAO Here I was trying to keep myself pure in thought and action, and you all go this route. Dammit, too much:faint: Biting my tongue...

I think I'll stay out of this one:p

Sugar free.

Bummer. and I was being good too. There goes the talk show offers.

Oops, I've got to get an annonymous screen name just for these threads.

My spelling is terrible, and I hate to edit posts,. Sorry for the glaring errors.

Just a play off of Sidney Poitier, "they call me Mr. Tibbs", since Telly said I should be Dr. Phil. Great flick, BTW, where he replayed the character from "In the Heat of the Night", one of my fave movies. Back to sex, it is largely about ego. making your partner have plasure makes you feel good, it acts on your ego, and making your partner pleasure you has the same reaction, makes one feel that they are in control (also ego). many of us on here will find changes in our libidos due to wieght loss. remember, fat stores hormones, and they are released when we lose (thus many women having cchanges to their cycles) and our improved self images don't hurt. there is also the fact that as we get healthier, we feel more energetic. Overall, weight loss can enhance sexual experiences, if both partners are up to the "challenge", and new drives are taken into consideration.

funny, that was good. I've been laughing for 5 minutes.

I think the swallowing is an ego thing, and I'm a guy. Makes the guy feel like he is in more control, that he can "make" her do that. I'm not saying that there aren't sensations involved, but most of them come before that act (to be crude) of swallowing. It can be an excellent experience when it is pleasurable to BOTH partners, and if part of the act reviles one of them, then the pleasure is removed. Do what feels right and good. Don't like it, don't do it. there are still many ways to increase pleasure without making half of the couple feel sick.

That may be one of his fantasies! But, if she doesn't want to scare him off, she needs to find them first. Remember, most guys like to feel like they are in charge, even when they aren't... which is always:heh: If he feels like they are fulfilling his fastasies, then the roleplaying will be more enjoyable, and he will begin to like the idea of it. Otherwise, he may feel like the roleplaying is so that she can fantasize about being with someone else, and could make him feel inadequate, thus the desire not to roleplay. he has to feel like it is all about him and what he wants, but to do that she needs to find out what it is that he fantasizes about and play off of that first.

Nah. You can still call me Paul.

Dear Daughter DD Dear Son DS Dear Husband DH Dear Wife DW Hope that helps. HTH heh heh had to throw that last one in!:biggrin1:

Honestly... Bring on the change slowly. A little at a time. Too much all at once can be overwhelming (Don't I know it, Right?). Maybe a little more sexy clothing one night, not a whole ensemble, maybe just a bit. Then slowly add more. Over time, he may get it. The again, there's also the talking approach. Talk about it and discover his fantasies, and then elabortate on those. once he has gotten used to that idea, then start bringing in new fantasies (of your own) that may be unexpected. Too much at once, even of a good thing, can be frightening. Let him in to your new world gently. OK? Why is it after writing that I feel the need for a shower?

Folks, remember, everyone on this thread has been talking about how they feel PERSONALLY. Personal feelings are neither right or wrong, they are your own alone. I applaud everyone on here for expressing themselves honestly, even if the feelings aren't popular. I'd rather read honest words than popular ones. Thanks to all, you've given me, personally, a lot to think about. How I look at myself and others. This is a very thought provoking thread! :clap2: :clap2: :clap2: :clap2: To all posters here, telling THEIR truths.

Wow... he does look a bit like Tiger. I remeber seeing Tiger as a kid on the Mike Douglas show and... Mike Douglas. I'm now remembering episodes of Mike Douglas. Boy, I am old. I think my hair just went gray.

Ahhh... Nope. Nothing to say here.:speechles Don't wanna get in trouble.

I can see the thing with Telly and Kimora Simmons, but who the heck is she? And what the heck is a Phat baby clothing line? Am I getting old? I thought Telly looks more like Tia Carrera. P

Ok.... whoa. This is some thread, huh?:faint: How about those Nationals? :nervous (baseball... think baseball...)

24 more lbs... I'll give it a go. May not get all the way there, but extra incentive is always a plus, so any steps towards it are a bonus!