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I was banded in June '07. I've lost 41 pounds and I'm 60 years old. I was sick and tired of "dieting" and still don't like the idea. My husband and mother-in-law for whom I cook, have no weight problems and eat pretty much anything they want and both have sweet tooths, as do I. I'm feeling good about my loss so far, but during February I have lost and gained the same 2 pounds three times! The candy, cookies, and ice cream have taken their toll and I'm ending the month right where I started. I understand that I need to be stricter with my diet and lose the weight first--then enjoy the treats but I seem to crave a treat every day! Any words of wisdom?

I was banded in June '07. I've lost 41 pounds and I'm 60 years old. I was sick and tired of "dieting" and still don't like the idea. My husband and mother-in-law for whom I cook, have no weight problems and eat pretty much anything they want and both have sweet tooths, as do I. I'm feeling good about my loss so far, but during February I have lost and gained the same 2 pounds three times! The candy, cookies, and ice cream have taken their toll and I'm ending the month right where I started. I understand that I need to be stricter with my diet and lose the weight first--then enjoy the treats but I seem to crave a treat every day! Any words of wisdom?