I'm so sorry and thinking of you. I've had 3 early miscarriages...had one natural m/c, one d&c, and one that was "induced" with some pills inserted down there. My doctor said it was important to keep the uterus as pristine as possible, i.e., that a d&c probably wasn't my best option. It is a tough decision. The pills worked like a charm, though, and induced the m/c within a few hours. Then, I could get it over with.