I hope all goes well for you Licia2210. My surgery date is the day after yours 2/23/16. I have many of the same concerns that you have. My children are older (2 girls) both away at college but they are very supportive of my decision. I also have support from my husband and my mom. I know this journey will not be easy but I'm ready for my life to change. I am also glad I found this app! :-)