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Well I found out Friday my soon to be ex husband changed medical insurances on me. I am devastated! I was supposed to have my gastric sleeve surgery on January 18th, I've been in the process since may of last year. I was in this toxic marriage for over 20 years and finally decided to stand up for myself and left and he is very bitter. I have filed paperwork with cal-pers showing that there are automatic temporary restraining orders when you file for divorce in california but my ex ignored them and changed insurance. My surgeon dr. Hiya isn't even on the new insurance he picked. Don't know even where to start all over with, I can't even afford a lawyer . Sorry.. I know I was rambling, just needed an outlet..

Yes, I've received some great advice! Thank you everyone for helping me out. I'm going to be making a lot of phone calls tomorrow! Thanks again for helping me out while I was freaking out!

I was with blue shield now with anthem blue cross,, I think its covered tomorrow I'm calling. Its just rough starting all over, I did my research and found Dr. Higa with whom I really like. Now I have to start all over with new doctor, get a referral to another bariatric surgeon. Its just a pain. And no i can't get my own insurance my insurance was with my ex, don't have a full time job.