Mrs.A.Train

Hello everyone congratulations on ur new life changes I'm having my surgery on Wednesday 1/13 I can't wait I'm not nervous I'm more excited about everything I just in a lot of pain nd I keep having these headaches nd I can't take the medication that really helps with the headaches bcuz it has aspirin in it so I just have to deal with it or take some tylenol with codine nd I have to take that after surgery if needed but I don't want to take now nd need it later nd my body rejects the medication so I'll b in pain from the surgery so I'm stuck in a situation... Best of luck to us its a new year nd new us coming soon....if anyone would like to add me as a friend please feel free.... I'm sorry I'm from Illinois an hour from Chicago

Hi everyone, I'm having my surgery on the 13th as well I was going through some things nd I had thought about not having the surgery until I got on here nd posted that I wasn't having the surgery and all of the feedback nd advice that I had received from everyone then I prayed nd ask God to lead me and I changed my mind I'm not nervous or anything I'm just tired of these protein shakes....but I no the reason why I'm doing this surgery is bcuz I want to b healthier nd live longer my mother passed away when she was 49 yrs old some of it was bcuz of her weight nd other health problems so I no I'm on a mission I have a 10 yr old daughter but I can't even worry about her don't get me wrong yes I want to b here for her but if she wants to listen to her dad nd give me problems I have to do for me..... I'm sorry if I went off topic but congratulations to all of us its a new year which means a new us

Hello hru Rubytink, I am having my surgery on Wednesday morning I'm so excited to b nervous right now I've been excited since I found out that my insurance was approved...nice meeting you may I ask where are u from

Yes we are gonna b real fine by June that's my birthday month as well so the mister is scared as well but he will b alright or he can leave nd close the door right behind him

Hey JLyn....thank u for ur support I willwill b praying for u nd with u I just left from seeing the surgeon nd his team so I'm all set for next Wednesday the 13th again thank u much

Hi QueenLaamiri I'm having my surgery next Wednesday I'm near Chicago I stay by Gurnee mills mall

Hello everyone how's everything going in scheduled to having my surgery next Wednesday January 13th I'm so excited I've been thru a lot in the past few days but I believe that I'm fine now blessed to us all

I'm scheduled to have my surgery on January 13th....I know I'm not gonna be able to eat anything for 2 weeks because of my pre- op diet but the guy that I'm with is having me cook breakfast, lunch, and dinner for him nd dinner for our daughter as well....then he tells me if I can't handle that then I should leave nd go to my family house until I have my surgery...so right now I'm not sure what I should do any suggestions

I told my cousin nd I hate that I told her bcuz she was saying I don't need to have surgery just stop eating so much but I've gained so much weight nd this was the best option that I had.... I'm 302.06lbs nd I'm 5 feet 3 inches tall....my wish is to get down to 140 lbs nd I'm praying that all of my illness would b gone best wishes to you all

We told our daughter she's 10 yrs old nd I'm having the surgery first.....when it first started we took her to the meeting with us bcuz she was only between the age of 7 nd 9 yrs old so we couldn't leave her at he by herself so she went nd when we came home well it took till the weekend for her to really ask what was that meeting about so we told her that meeting that we went to was to give us information on how we can be healthier for u so that we can raise u into a beautiful woman that ur growing into...now that those years have passed nd I'm having my surgery on the 13th nd she older now we still talk about it but we told her what's said in this house stays in this house she had company over right b4 Christmas last year nd she mentioned the surgery nd I told her not to say anything bcuz I don't want no one to know what I'm doing so her friends won't b out saying things bcuz lids can b very mean nd rude... Just let them know that ur ok ur just getting healthier for urself nd for ur family

Thank u so much I've been through so much nd its not getting any better so I really had to dig down inside of me after I prayed nd I had to ask myself if I wanted to live or die nd I'm not ready to die so this is the best thing for me....thank u so much....

Hello everyone I have made my mind up I've cried a few times nd I'm gonna go thru with having the surgery I will b starting my liquid diet tomorrow morning at 7:00 am I thank everyone for their support nd advice that was giving to me nd I have came up with the conclusion that I can't let some one take my joy away from me... I've tried talking myself out of having the surgery but I no this is the best thing for me nd I can't worry about my fiancee nor my daughter right now I have to get myself together nd if they don't want to get in my wagon then I will leave them both in my rear view mirror while I'm waving bye I have so many health problems that going on with me nd I'm only 34 years old I've had so many mild strokes but this is belongs to me again thank u all so much everyone has turned on a light bulb for me in some type of way but it just hurts to see nd b with someone that suppose to b my backbone nd they not trying to help but in a few months he will b going thru the same thing nd I'm turning my back on his ass just to show him I can take care of myself.....I can't stop saying thank u all so much

Yes that isn't anything to play with I start having stroke bac in 07 nd it has gotten worse over the years I'm a African American but I can sound like I'm a Jamaican then sometimes I can't walk a half block not in half of a half but I'm had to cry nd pray nd really read the comments that was left nd I prayed nd I asked God to lead me every step of the way nd ibalso asked him to relive what needs to be done

Yes I'm dealing with someone that's trying to act like he cares but I don't really believe in my heart that he cares anymore about me....my daughter came home yesterday nd I was telling her that I am going to need her help today which was yesterday nd the weekend but instead of her helping me she ran her little ass outside to b with her friends but its fine I'm not gonna worry about it bcuz I no what I need to do thank u so much

Yes I'm dealing with someone that's trying to act like he cares but I don't really believe in my heart that he cares anymore about me....my daughter came home yesterday nd I was telling her that I am going to need her help today which was yesterday nd the weekend but instead of her helping me she ran her little ass outside to b with her friends but its fine I'm not gonna worry about it bcuz I no what I need to do thank u so much

Yes he is having the surgery he has been going through this process for the past 5 years the first time I was scared for him so I didn't want him to go thru it...I guess bcuz I couldn't b there for him bcuz of our daughter..then the next time the surgeon went out of town, the third time was the exercise person told us that he needed to pay 75$ nd we didn't have the money at that time, the fourth time was bcuz of the psychiatrist..now in 2014 we both was gonna do it together we did everything except seen the exercise person bcuz I question everything why I am paying to see you nd I'm also giving u my insurance that means that she was trying to get paid double correct....(I think so)....we was suppose to had seen the psychologist nd I was in the hospital taking xrays nd every time she called my phone went to voicemail bcuz I didn't have any service in the basement of the hospital so when I got discharged from the hospital I called nd I explained to her that I was in the hospital....she told the surgeon that I was playing to many games nd I was a cancer to my fiancee so we didn't need the surgery at all...

I'm done with everything I go see my surgeon nd the rest of the team Monday January 4th then I have my surgery on January 13th I've told my family but they don't believe me so I'm in it by myself bcuz it seems like my fiancee isn't backing me up on anything anymore so I'm in it to win it for myself by myself I just pray that I don't have no fall backs good luck everyone

Thank u all I really needed it

McMasterflash can u add me to the groups please my name on fb is Donsanell Keen

@ McMasterflash thank u so much nd yes I'm on facebook Thank u all for ur advice

Thank u so much 2goldengirl I sure will hang out with u all

2goldengirl I haven't really told my family about my surgery... I told my dad nd step mom but my dad was trying to talk me out of it just like my cousin so I just stop saying anything at all...I have so many health issues its not even funny so I thought mayb if I have surgery most of these things would leave it just hurts me just thinking about it

Atontor ur looking handsome nd great

Thank u all for ur advice I just don't no which way to turn bcuz I haven't talked to my family about me having surgery at all it was brought up but I didn't tell them except my cousin that I was having surgery on January 13, nd she's trying to talk me out of it saying its to soon but I was ready....I let my daughter no what's going on she's 10 yrs old nd she understands that I need to get healthy bcuz I have so many health problems going on with myself so she says if its gonna keep me here longer with her go for it so I went for it