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How do you feel about being single and waiting to lose the weight and find someone special? Do you ever wonder if you'll find someone who is banded and have a relationship with them? How does all this effect the way your interpret relationships?

Ok so Dr. John is AMAZING!! He had the lap-band done himself so he's very sympathetic and can let you know exactly what to expect!! He's very caring and KNOWS what he's doing!!!! I am a Christian, so him praying with me before surgery meant alot and I didn't even ask.....haha. Good man...GREAT SURGEON...and great hospital!!! :confused: Knew he was the surgeon for me the first time I met him!! And he does all his own seminars!!! I mean what more can you ask for...Plus his office is very very helpful in matters of insurance..they submitted my stuff online and I was approved in 10 minutes! SO Alabamians JOHN GROVES IS THE WAY TOO GO!!!

ok so I am dating a new guy, I've not been with anyone other than my recent ex since my surgery. I am a little nervous about it but I really like the guy and he's so totally hot!!!! I am just wondering how people have dealt with changing partners and adjusting to someone new

update....so the sex is good...but whoever said the way to get over a man is to get under another or in my case on top of another lol was way wrong.....I hate being all emotional...but I guess I will have to deal with it and continue to progess in my new relationship :tongue_smilie:

yes he knows and is very supportive of it :w00t: he's an all around great guy :ohmy:

i love giving and recieving....its actually a huge turn on for me to please my man :tongue2: but its all what people like and don't like...cant blame them for refusing something they aren't comfortable or okay with....but it would definately suck!!

well that's great :0)

uhm...I was waiting on you saying you get jealous cause its your man haha....but I guess you can be in love with a guy and girl...ask Tila Tequila :thumbup:

I understand the emotion thing for women you know cause I am one...and not all guys lack emotion trust me!! they just have a hard time showing as to us women let it flow like a waterfall.....

oh yeh you can bet those babies will go down....it was a sad day when I traded my dd bra for just a d.......

and no we don't use condoms so that's not it haha

ok question lol my boyfriend can usually last a long time in bed but if I move a certain he goes instantly...he said it feels like i'm ribbed on the inside and it happens everytime....I know its a truly awesome thing haha but he said he's never felt that before in another girl...does that sound weird or do i just have a magic va jay jay haha

well apparently...I can not sympthize with you...even at my biggest I was full of self confidence. Because my body is changing and I have weird skin I call it...I am a little self conscious but I know that that will be fixed soon :cursing: what I am trying to say is feel comfortable in your own skin...no one loves or should love you more than you!!! Don't ever call yourself fat....dont' ever feel worthless cause trust me there are so many people out there who appreciate you whether you realize it or not!!! :thumbup:

mine is amazing!!! i swear by it....if my boyfriend and I don't see each other for a while....thats my go to...he and I have even used it during sex....he loves to watch my reaction to it :cursing: lol

my doctor said no sex for 6 weeks but 3 days out my BF and I did and I had no trouble....hmmmmmm I dunno I guess it depends on the person

why is that....its so funny a girlfriend of mine and I were talking about it last night and oddly she's thought about the same thing.....so obviously its more common than I thought.....its just getting up the courage to go through with it or suppressing the urge with male attention lol