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Thanks for all the great advice. Nice to know I am not alone with this

I am on Nexium fir acid reflux, however I don't have any of the symptoms I had prior to surgery and actually my surgeon said that I could try not taking the medication at 10 weeks as he doesn't think I need it anymore.

I am 8 weeks out and the same thing happens to me. I also have left side pain as well that hasn't left. I eat very slowly and very little. I also haven't eaten any foods that are not on my plan, so I am not sure what is happening.... I would love to know if others have experienced this and if so when it went away?

This happens to me all the time. I spoke to my surgeon and he said it was quite common and not to worry about it. He also suggested getting in more fluids and going slower as I move from sitting to standing etc. Merry Christmas!

It's a personal choice to disclose matters related to your health. I only told my husband and sister, whom I knew I would get their support from regarding my surgery. I didn't tell colleagues, my boss, extended family or friends. I know them well enough to know I wouldn't get their support so I didn't want any negative feedback regarding my decision. I also am a very private person and I didn't want to be discussing my surgery all the time, which I knew would happen if I disclosed. I am 6 weeks out today and I am very glad with my decision. People have definitely started noticing my weight loss and when they ask what I am doing to lose weight, I say I am watching what I eat and exercising more, which is true. I don't feel ashamed or like I am lying or keeping secrets, as my health is my business. Ultimately, you have to do what makes you most comfortable in terms of sharing your surgery with family and friends. Do what feels right to you All the best!

I work in an office as well and took 3 weeks off and wish I had taken 4 weeks off. So, I guess my message to you is to take as much time off as you can/need and focus on recovering. I found the drive challenging and sitting at a desk and just moving around the office exhausting especially in the afternoon. Congrats! Take care of yourself and try not to rush back into things!

I had horrible itching during the first few weeks! Not to mention that the dry cold weather had set in already when I had my sleeve done. I used baby oil, coconut oil and even ended up getting a prescription from my physician. Ultimately, do the best you can to deal with your dry skin and know that it will go away when you least expect it. Good luck!

Hi there, I am 5 weeks out and started having left sided pain two days ago. The pain starts under my left breast bone and radiates to my back, upper shoulder blade and slightly into my shoulder. I don't have a fever. I was just wondering if anyone else experienced this type of pain? I am of course wondering if it might be something more serious (leak?) as I was feeling great up until a couple of days ago when this pain started. Is this typical get increased pain at 5 weeks out? Thanks for your responses ????

Yes I have 5 incisions. I didn't realize that they tie it off. Good to know I hope then I get some relief soon as the pain is quite uncomfortable. Not excruciating, but noticeable. Ah well, I guess it's all part of the recovery process. I called my surgeon late this afternoon and left a message. I suspect I will hear back tomorrow sometime. Was just wondering whether it was normal. I had been feeling so good...maybe too good and did too much Thanks again!

Congrats on your weight loss! hw 297 SW 295 1 month post op 263

Thanks for your replies! @@MzB what do you mean "left stitch popping"? I wasn't aware this would happen. What does that feel like? I never felt a pop recently. Maybe though this is what is happening. I just feel bruised up and pulling inside.

I started getting nauseous last night and it has been ongoing on and off today. I am 3 weeks out and had no issues before. Like you it appears to be completely random. I am just riding it out and hoping it goes away shortly. If it gets worse or carries on, I will have to look into it. Have you tried chewable gravel? That seems to do the trick for me. Hope you feel better soon!

i am usually an open book about things, but regarding my VSG surgery I stayed private. I only told my husband and my sister. My other family members and friends are completely unaware, as are my young children. I decided this, because I only wanted positive energy/comments regarding this very important decision I made to have the surgery - I didn't want any negativity to bring me down and I knew there would be if I openly discussed it. I knew as well, if I told everyone close to me it would be like giving them all permission to talk about it, and make judgements whenever they chose to ( my family is like this). 3 weeks out and I am happy I kept it private has it been a bit isolating? Yes, but that is why I come on this site so often....help me feel less alone through this process and to get support

I am at week 3 and completely stalled. I was happy with my initial loss of 25lbs but it's hard now that there is no movement on the scale. So glad that I knew this would happen, as otherwise this would be (even more!) frustrating. Just need to stay positive and keep to the plan layers out by my physician.

I am stalled as well right now so measuring is a great idea! I haven't done it yet since before my surgery, so I am hoping there are some significant changes once I check!

@@curvybritt - I feel the exact same way! Just took me longer to say it

I am 3 weeks out today and was feeling pretty good, until I started work again. I have been just exhausted in the afternoon and had a few dizzy spells. I am taking all of my vitamins etc. I suspect it's still our bodies recuperating from surgery and just adjusting to our new diminished food intake, while not really reducing our daily workload. I am sure I will adjust soon enough! I wouldn't say I regret having this surgery as I have been happy with my weight loss and feel very optimistic in general about my life now. I feel like it has forced me to be more awake, accountable and engaged. I no longer feel controlled by food which is an amazing feeling. I can now focus on other things in life what I will admit is challenging, like I am sure it is for everyone, is because we are stepping into the big holiday season and just trying to navigate all of that while sticking to our diets and for some of us keeping our surgery a secret. I am personally feeling a bit overwhelmed right now and I must admit that even though I am so happy about the possibility of my new life and being able to do all the things I love (biking, hiking, skiing, swimmimg etc.) I am also missing the comfort I used to get from eating my favourite foods. On a daily basis, I am forced to now deal with my emotions, rather than eating them away and pushing them down with food. It's been a very sobering experience and one that I am happy to be having, but one that is also very hard. I think we just need to hang in there, remind ourselves of why we decided to do this, and know that it will get better!

@@Chazmataz I know exactly what you mean about everything being about food especially with Christmas approaching. It's been very challenging for me to keep my boundaries up and not cave to the pressure of eating when everyone else is eating and celebrating. Not because I want to it but just because of the constant pressure. Like you I didn't tell very many people and so most don't know and don't understand the sudden shift and restrictions I am following. I just try to be easy going about it all and enjoy their company and brush off the pressure Congrats on your weight loss!

@@Nov25sleeve, good luck today with your surgery! Keep us posted!

I know eh? I actually have more energy than I thought I would given my caloric intake. I think back to how many calories I was eating before surgery and am blown away by how much I used to consume!!! Crazy. I am also shocked by how I am not craving all of the junk food I used to eat on a daily basis. I have been able to cook and bake for my family and it doesn't phase me... This would have been improssible before. I suspect we'll be eating/drinking moe soon Enough!

I was not put to sleep for mine, but was merely sedated, however I am in Canada and perhaps the protocols for this procedure are different here. Needless to say it wasn't at all painful and I just felt groggy and tired the rest of the day and my husband had to drive me home. I think it only took about 20 mins from beginning to end. Try not to worry too much and hope it goes well!

In the morning I feel great, but then by the afternoon I start to slow down and need a break. I think it's our bodies trying to recovery from the surgery as well as because we are eating/drinking so few calories. I am just trying to hang in there and stay positive, with the notion that it will change with time. Hang in there!

I have been tracking my calories as well and I am between 350-500 and I am two weeks out. I was very surprised as well by how low it was but my surgeon said it was normal over the first few weeks/months while the stomach heals. I guess we just have to deal with this.

This is an issue for me as well. I am 2 weeks out and still struggling with sleep due to not being able to sleep on my side like is usually would. I am exhausted! I tried sleeping with a pillow on my side but now help. I wake up around 3:00am and can't fall back to sleep. Very exhausted so I understand what you are going through. Sorry I couldn't be more helpful! Hopefully someone else out there has some tips that we could both use

Hi 24601, Sorry you had such a bad reaction from your mother. That is hard to not have support from someone you love and who loves you. I didn't tell my parents for that reason as I felt they would be unsupportive and question my decision. Hopefully your mom comes around before your surgery or shortly there after. Stay strong and let me know how your experience goes with Dr Kelly. I have heard great things about him and have a friend who is thinking of getting VSG and she is thinking of Dr. Kelly. All the best!