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My sleeve surgery is 1/28 and my husbands is 1/26. I am doing ok on my pre op diet. I started a day early to be with my husband. However, he is having trouble with the food choices. He missed chewing. It's difficult for him. The only soil if type food we can have is grits. Has any of you southern girls or guys ever made crunchy grits in oven or anything ? Advice please

My final straw was being at the beach and not being able to get off the ground to stand. I remember sitting there and feeling all eyes on me and feeling the pity and hearing the laughter coming my way. I sat there as my friends and their children stood over me trying to figure out what to do. My son sat down and tried to help but by the grace of God I was able to get up. But the tears didn't stop as I walked to the car. I thought to myself, what have I done. I have a 27 year old daughter and I desperately want to be around for her wedding and my grandchildren. I am going to succeed.