My mother and sister do not support me at all - my family where I live (closest friends) support me and will be there for me from day 1. My sister has gone so far to try and convince one of my dearest friends to convince me to not do it!! The nerve! I do not plan to tell my mom and sister - I am scheduled for the 14th. Do what is right for you, as someone said earlier in the chain, you have to love with it, not them. Good Luck to you!!!