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Cervidae

Gastric Bypass Patients
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  1. my advice would be not to get discouraged before you even know if anything's going wrong. Just giving yourself anxiety and sadness with no cause and no solution. Who knows, it's entirely possible it will go through without a hitch. Or possible that if you get denied, your surgeon can appeal and their appeal will be enough. There's always a way.
  2. I saw a picture of myself from behind and honestly did not even realize it was me until I noticed that it was my hair. Also I have a certain, um, sexy-time NSV that I won't share here in public but believe me when I say that there are new and fun things happening in our bedroom.
  3. Sounds like you're doing really well! It's okay to struggle and feel sort of suspicious that this is actually going to work for you. Just don't let that stop you from taking care of yourself and moving forward with your life. You've got this, and I'm really happy the RNY is helping you in ways the band couldn't. Congratulations on all of your success, and all the success that is to come for you!
  4. my 6 month post op point will be on Feb 17th, and I've lost 107 pounds as of this morning. However, I started at almost a hundred pounds higher than you. I think you're actually doing really well! I can't wait to be down to 230 - I still have 50 pounds to go before I get there, almost as much as you've already lost. So be proud of yourself, because you're doing great. This time next year it won't matter that some people lost more weight faster than you. What matters is your health and well-being.
  5. @@Stevehud mental illness certainly has a role to play in obesity, as do choices, but I think about it like this. I ate healthier and exercised more than my best friend, who is also overweight, but she has been maybe... 220 at her highest weight. I don't think she's ever been above that. When she really buckles down and works out/eats right, she can lose weight reasonably easily. And yet, I managed to gain, and gain, and gain and eventually got to be over 400 pounds, and even seeing professional nutritionists and trainers over the span of many years could not enable me to lose weight and keep it off. If there weren't some other metabolic/hormonal/etc thing happening in our bodies, she would have been the same size or bigger than me. Or I would have weighed less than her. There are some people who become very overweight mainly because of poor choices, but it's the losing part that shows you what's really going on. A person without the disease can do what those trainers do in the fat reality shows. They could gain and lose 100 pounds pretty easily (at least compared to a person who can't seem to do anything to lose it). It always frustrated me that people see these shows and think "well, look how easy it is! all they did was eat healthy and work out and they lost weight! So why don't all the other fatasses in the world do that?" The answer is... the fatasses that try and try and can't lose weight or keep it off have a legitimate disease. Losing weight isn't easy, but it's doable for everyone. For people with the disease of obesity, the first big hurdle is even making it possible for your body to lose weight. My RNY made it possible for me to lose weight and keep it off for the first time in my life. Now the losing weight part is up to me.
  6. I spent most of my life believing the opinions and cruel comments of people around me regarding my weight. Before puberty, I was in three sports and eating an extremely healthy diet because my mother has kidney disease and must eat healthy. I was tall, thin, and a vibrant, smart, and happy kid that everyone adored. Right around the time I got my first period, I began gaining weight and just... couldn't stop. Two years ago, I believed all of the mean and hateful and utterly incorrect things people have been saying to and about me my whole life. Learning the things these people firmly state saved my life and gave me the bravery and self-worth to even begin to think about wls and reclaiming my life instead of trying to end it with food because I felt so out of control and worthless. In some ways I'm jealous of people who are brave enough to stand up and say these things. Even now I'm wrestling with myself trying to decide if I am brave enough to share this on Facebook. I WANT to share it, I WANT people to understand that they are so, so wrong about obesity and that their opinions and understandings of it are actually ignorant and hurtful. I don't think I'm there yet. Maybe some day. Thanks for sharing, I needed to hear this today.
  7. Cervidae

    How long does it take to fall in love?

    I think it's not exactly common to fall in love that soon, but it's entirely possible. Most people aren't lucky enough to find a person they connect with that strongly and that quickly, so if you have, congratulations! I've been with the sweetest, most caring person I've ever met for almost 4 years, and I didn't trust my feelings in the beginning, but I can tell you honestly that I loved him within two weeks of meeting him. Honestly, I feel a surge of intense connection the first time we spoke, and so did he. I'm going to marry this guy. I think a lot of people have experienced the pain that love and relationships with others can inflict and it makes them much more hesitant to truly open up to and connect with someone that quickly. It takes a young and relatively unscarred heart to be able to bare yourself to someone based on initial feelings of trust and attraction. I've sort of always operated this way, and while it has set me up for intense pain in the past, it's also given me a chance to experience the kind of wild, beautiful love that most people only dream of but are too jaded and scared to be open enough to experience. But that's just my experience and view on the subject.
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    Strained Green/fruit juices

    My nut told me not to even try it yet, especially fruit juices, because they are super good for you but also contain a huge amount of sugar and are almost guaranteed to make you dump. My six month check up is in 4 days and I'm betting when I talk to her then she will say it's okay to try it, but keeping the amount of fruit greatly reduced is going to be something all surgery patients must do. Can you ask your nutritionist about it?
  9. My surgeon did not require a pre-op diet, only to make sure I only had liquids for a day and a half before and then no food or drink at all for the twelve hours before surgery. And my bmi was 65 the day before surgery. It was actually higher when she gave me the surgery date, because I did my own pre-op diet and lost about 10 pounds from it.
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    3 Milestones in One!

    That's so great, congratulations!
  11. passing out isn't exactly normal, he must have had WAY more sugar than is healthy or normal, or has some kind of other health issue. Gastric bypass does cause dumping if you eat too much sugar, and "too much" could be a different amount for every person. My nut's rule is 5 grams or less per serving. When I eat something with five grams of sugar, I don't dump but I do feel sort of nauseous and gross. You're going to need to keep your sugar amounts as low as possible, regardless. Not only will it cause dumping but it's all around unhealthy for you, physically and mentally. As I'm sure you know.
  12. Cervidae

    What's going right

    The two biggest helpers for me when I feel like I'm struggling are support groups and progress pictures. Especially progress pictures. I always feel super determined after looking at them.
  13. Hello. Seems like you are doing well and learning as much as you can, which is often what helps a person not only have success but keep it long term. I have a feeling you're going to do really well! Also, you and I are the same height and weight right now (well, technically I'm 281 as of this morning, but close enough), though I'm 5.5 months post op.
  14. My rny was on August 17th. I've lost 106 pounds since surgery, and 163 pounds total. I've had a TON of stalls along the way, usually lasting at least 2 weeks, but when it picks back up I lose so rapidly that I seem to catch up. I have zero regrets, and while I'm a little anemic at the moment and still don't have the energy level I would like to have, I would do the exact same thing all over again if I had to. I'm almost out of the 280s and into the 270s. I haven't been this size since I was maybe... 13? Early in my 14th year? I'm seeing great things on the horizon!
  15. Cervidae

    My "Butterfly" day ...

    you've got a great outlook and a really positive vibe. Good luck! We'll see you on the other side.
  16. chapstick, wipies, and your toothbrush, and I bet you wouldn't need anything else.
  17. Cervidae

    You're Cheating

    This mindset that so many people have about wls being the "easy way out" or a "magic cure" is exactly the reason I haven't told most people that I had surgery. Only my mother and sister know, because I know that the entire rest of my family would be super judgmental and ignorant if they knew. My 160 pound loss would cease to be a major accomplishment and would somehow just be cheating to them. I refuse to put up with that ignorance. So to them, I'm just dieting hard and working my butt off (literally) which is pretty much exactly what I'm doing anyway. No harm, no foul.
  18. Cervidae

    Eating Eggs

    I didn't dump either but it was a few months before eggs sat well in my stomach. In the beginning, they even hurt a bit, even if I soft scrambled them. Now I can eat them with no issues (5.5 months post op) and I'm really happy about it because eggs are very good for you. Just eat very slowly and carefully and really listen to your stomach and you should know pretty quickly if they are something you can eat yet or not.
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    The mental side

    You sound exactly like I did before surgery! It was about 7 months between when I went to the first seminar and when I had surgery, and it felt like an eternity... until I woke up from surgery. Suddenly the loooooooong wait actually felt like the blink of an eye. Now I'm 5.5 months post op and I can't even believe it's been almost 6 months already. Strange! Just hang in there, and always remember - this time is for YOU. Take this time to take amazing care of yourself, and become the best you can be, and learn as much as you can. Then all of a sudden the surgery will be over and you'll be through the door and moving on toward your new life and the new you.
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    Picture Tuesday.

    awesome! Here are my current progress pics: http://imgur.com/a/X5Gdz Weight in before photos: 387 pounds, August 16, 2015 Weight in after photos: 282 pounds - February 1, 2016 RNY August 17, 2015.
  21. Cervidae

    Food stuck and sliming

    I don't know as much about the band vs. the sleeve and bypass, but it is my understanding that with an unfilled band, it should be difficult to get things stuck, if your stomach is healthy. Is it possible you have a stricture or scar tissue preventing your stomach from taking in food? I would talk to my surgery center, if I were you. I hope you feel better soon!
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    Gas, bloating?

    I had my RNY in mid-August and I still occasionally get some gas/bloating. Usually it's a sign that I ate too fast, or I've eaten something that is just not sitting well in my new stomach. Try gas-x strips?
  23. I first thought I wanted to get the sleeve too, but then I started seeing the statistical chance of having to have a bypass revision is pretty high. I, too, started at a pretty high weight - over 400 pounds when I first started at the bariatric center. Yes, the sleeve is a little less invasive, and has less absorption issues. But when I went to the seminar and listened to my surgeon talking about the pros and cons of both, and then also based on all the research I did on my own and the sleevers and rny-ers I talked to, I changed to the bypass. My main reasons are these: - I started at a high bmi (upper 60s) and most of the people who had the sleeve at that high weight ended up in maintenance before they had even lost all their weight, and also many of them ended up with a bypass anyway. - I wanted to avoid going under the knife for a second time, and since so many people get revisions, the bypass just seemed smarter. - I wanted the extra accountability. One of the big reasons I got surgery in the first place was to give my body the best tool I could for controlling what I eat and how much I eat. The bypass goes a step beyond the sleeve and also gives you malabsorbtion. - In the end, ultimately, I chose the bypass for all these reasons and because I want the most bang for my buck. If I had started at a much lower weight, perhaps my current weight, I might have chosen the sleeve. As things stand for me now, I'm very, very happy that I chose the bypass. I have PCOS and even now after losing 160 pounds from my highest weight, I still have to fight my body tooth and nail to continue to lose. I'm nowhere near maintenance (282 pounds as of this morning) and I'm glad that I chose the more intensive surgery. In the end it's your and your surgeon's decision. I would recommend the RNY for someone who began as heavy as me, but that's just me.
  24. Cervidae

    During.

    From the album: Cervidae

    5.5 months post op - 102 pounds down since the day of surgery, 157 pounds lost total.
  25. Cervidae

    During

    From the album: Cervidae

    5.5 months post op - 102 pounds down since the day of surgery, 157 pounds lost total.

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