I think that if my brothers gf did not have the "other" wls done. Then they might be more understanding/supportive. She has had nothing but problems since she had it. She would still do it again, she says. I am sooo excited to start having a new healthier,thinner, better life. I think the worse downside of this surgery is that I will start getting a period. I like not having them. lol. I think I will just tell them I have been dieting, and exercising a lot, if they ask me I will tell the truth.
That is great advice from you all. Thank you for all the help. That makes me feel better.