Ya, I guess, I was just going with the fact that the poster never came back on to tell anyone how the wife was doing. I have seen stuff like this before on the Weight Watchers board where someone will tell horrorr stories and then they get banned. I know with all surgeries there are risks. One poster said what happened to his wife was not due to the lapband, but due to surgery itself. I know someone who got their tubes tied and got septic due to a tear and leakage. I don't think anyone said she did something wrong. It was just a chance that you take when going under. I am still investigating it all. I am still going to try to lose weight the "right" way and then use this as a last resort. I am going to give myself one year to get it together.