Well, having just completed the surgery last week at age 59 I certainly wouldn't let age cause you any doubt. I found I was doing less things with my grandkids than I wanted and tired of not feeling good about myself. My insurance sat in my request for ages so I mentally geared up to continue with preop diet on my own and it was an "easy" one for me and I didn't feel like I was on a diet. Simply put it was 6 small meals, 8 glasses of water, no refined sugars, no (minimal) fat, whole grains, fresh vegies and fruit. Those months on this regime is good training. I felt better within a couple weeks. I lost 36 lbs pre op (surgery 12/28 Dr Hanafy Kent, WA) Everyone chooses these procedures for varied reasons. For me it was a drastic step becuase usually I lose lots of weight then gain back more. I will not risk stretching my little stomach now and having to have it removed or additional surgery. Hopefully, there is a support group in your area than you can attend and air your concerns. Best wishes in whatever route you choose!