Jay05

My surgery is Monday..... For the first month or two until I'm on more solid foods, I'll probably not do too many social events. In fact, some girls in my small circle of support are helping me with that. For instance, 7/2 is a friend's birthday, normally we would have a get-together at a local restaurant with about 15 people, all eating and drinking. But since she knew I couldn't come, or it would raise questions, she suggested we do the Comedy Club instead. That way, it won't be as noticeable that I'm not eating/drinking. As for questions about my weight loss..... I'm eating a lot less/healthier and exercising more. Which is the truth! Omg that's so exciting!! Good Luck! How do u feel?? I think your right at least if my close circle of family or friends knew the rest doesn't really matter!! Thanks for the support means alot!! X

I didnt tell no one either, my family is very judgemental and criticizes and i don't feel like hearing there opinions Have you had your surgery?? X

How will you explain your weight lost to others who ask? Or how will you manage social get togethers? I hate lying to people but I don't want it to be common knowledge either x

Thank you for your reply, ive been going around in circles in my mind for months. I feel down about myself and wish I could have done this without surgery hence why I don't feel comfortable telling family however as you said food is such a big part of our family. My family knows about servery but they are just so judgemental and I hate being the topic of gossip! How far are you on your journey?? How are you finding it? X