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I gave up today
Michelle Tarver replied to Michelle Tarver's topic in PRE-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
I don't have any comorbididities. Which is good...And bad... That would help me qualify with a lower BMI..But it will not change my window of opportunity for Dec 2016. -
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Michelle Tarver replied to Michelle Tarver's topic in PRE-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
I. I work retail at costco. I have vacation time.However I don't have enough to recover enough to do my job that includes lifting 50lb boxes. Dr said 8_12 weeks. Hence the need for careful planning and making sure I get maximum shot term disability pay,and an approved FMLA. Insurance is not the problem. -
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Michelle Tarver replied to Michelle Tarver's topic in PRE-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
Atena and it's every changing policy is what delayed it in the 1still place,yes and the stupid.40 BMI on surgery day rule is what if I let it keep me stuck fat until I have a good surgery window. I am pretty sure..thought it is Aetna and I would not put it past them to throw up another road block..that the insurance side is not my most pressing issue That is my window.of maximum opportunity to have the surgery done and health is so far away. I could.I suppose do the medical.weight loss till next fall and still go to Mexico for WLS. But if I do it in the US I have zero out of pocket..I have CHAMPVA as a.2nd insurance. I.was hoping to save Mexico for the plastic surgery.post weightozs -
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Michelle Tarver replied to Michelle Tarver's topic in PRE-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
It's basically work. I have had 4 work place injuries 4 years running. I have missed at least 6_8 weeks minimum on each occasion. February was when I would be able to get my full short term disability pay..but I still don't qualify for FMLA ,or a company permitted medical leave...the last one is to soon...it will be June or July before I do qualify,and it is to busy at work ..And would make me look bad to schedule an elective surgery then...After Christmas 2016 is even a little pushy..but I would want to make the most of my insurance deductibles having been met. Sent from my E6782 using Tapatalk For Aetna your BMI has to be 40 on surgery day... Sent from my E6782 using Tapatalk -
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I did,and I am so sad. I started this process in March 2015, I had originally hoped to be surgically completed and back to work before I was supposed to go back from an injury I had at work. That plan didn't work out despite not getting back to work before August.( Thanks Atena you suck) So plan B was have procedure in February.2016. For a lot of reasons now that won't work. I am about a 42 bmi now...So a 10 lb weight loss knocks me out of the 40 BMI range to qualify for the procedure. My next plausible window for the procedure is Dec 2016 I can't live in this body that long without going nuts. So,I am going to have to switch to the medical weight loss program. I cried when I told the NUT today. And I am crying writing this. Best of luck to you all. Thanks for all the support.
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Michelle Tarver replied to Tobeornottobe's topic in PRE-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
I have 2 ins... And beacuse I do I have ZERO out of pocket costs for the surgery. Is it worth the wait for you ? You will have to decide. -
Will Anthem BCBS deny surgery for significant weight loss during the 6 Mon diet?
Michelle Tarver replied to PreOpSleeve's topic in PRE-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
I have no co-morbitities. I am not sure what the start BMI was the weight was 278. -
Will Anthem BCBS deny surgery for significant weight loss during the 6 Mon diet?
Michelle Tarver replied to PreOpSleeve's topic in PRE-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
That is a good question for your insurance, and your surgons office. My insurance wants my BMI to be 40 on surgery day. I'm 5'7" and 266 right now. -
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I am meeting most of the goals finding a protein shake/powder I like. Eating slower,ect.. I still have to work on switching to Decaf coffee and food logging. I am not planning on having surgery until Dec at the absolute earliest if not Feb or March... Which is good because today the NUT informed me they just learned my insurance has a requirement that I meet with her for 3 consecutive months. Duh.. I had an appointment for late August they called me and rescheduled. Isn't it their job to keep that stuff in mind? I have been seeing the NUT since June so if I was in a hurry this would have/should have been my last appointment But I am now at square one. Not sure which I want to work on..food logging..cause that will make me lose weight and I am in the category that I can not or my BMI is to low to quality. Or do I give up my caffinae coffee that I love? Decisions decisions..
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Michelle Tarver replied to Gemini0621's topic in PRE-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
I envy all you desk people.. I work for a great company, but do heavy lifting ..50 lb boxes...so I may be out up to 8 weeks or more. I have to be able to lift with no pain before I can go back. I have short term disability so the $$ is not a problem, but its a small department and me being out is an inconvenience for them. -
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Michelle Tarver replied to annabreke84's topic in PRE-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
It depends on your insurance. I have to have the 40 BMI on surgery day. -
Frustrated and Grateful at the same time
Michelle Tarver replied to MIMISAN's topic in PRE-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
Oy! It's awful to be derailed.. But the WLS process alone has already saved your life! I would be full of mixed emotions too! -
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Michelle Tarver replied to hilaryglynxo's topic in PRE-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
I often wonder about the mouth guard. I can't get use to the cpap. I used it in the past and went about 8 years not using it and now trying it again since my surgeon requires the use at the hospital. I wear it about 4 hrs a night and then rip it off lol It is very much working for my husband. Look and see if your insurance will cover the mouth guard. Sent from my E6782 using Tapatalk -
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Michelle Tarver replied to hilaryglynxo's topic in PRE-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
I do not have apena but my husband does. He had no success with a CPAP but the VA got him a mouth guard that slightly pulls his jaw forward and opens the airway. This works like a charm for him. I can tell by looking at him if he did not use it the night before.. Well I can usually tell that night because the snoring/gasping wakes me up.. -
Another Big Step and Advice Needed.
Michelle Tarver replied to Reason to Believe's topic in PRE-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
Totally agree with the post reason to believe made! Good luck!