onesleevedmamma

Thank you! Good luck with your journey it really is wonderful. A Rollercoaster for sure but I have so much more energy, less pain, happue3, etc. Youre rughtright. My heart needs to catch up to my head

Hey there.... just got back from the Urologist appointment (although it has been getting better in the last week or so). He asked if I was Diabetic right off the bat, saying that's one of the things he expects to hear from Diabetics. I told him that back in the Fall my A1C was tested and it was a marginally high number, I was put on Metformin but never could tolerate the drug. Every time I was tested in the hospital my sugar level was normal....and has been since surgery. He really didn't have an answer for me, but he said for me to "Urinate every 2 hours whether I need to or not" and he took some bloodwork to see if my kidneys were functioning properly. He said my urine was "concentrated" today when they tested it, as if I'm not getting a lot of fluids. I told him I am drinking Water nonstop all day..... Told me to come back in 6 weeks if I'm not better. He just said that some people have reactions to the anesthesia but it wouldn't last 4 weeks. Thanks! Yes, I have to sit on the potty every couple houra whether I feel like it or not it I end up leaking a little. I'm going on friday. If anything new is found I'll update here. I had great blood sugar and no diabetes. I wonder about now and levels. I know I don't get enough water though Thanks again for the update!

No worries! If you have more questions post them here or message me or others

Thank you so much for your feedback. I will definitely keep an open mind and probably will tell people when I feel I'm ready. My family/friend support is very small so I am definitely thinking about the negativity from others. I shouldn't but I am. I just kind of want to get a grip on my new life before I have to deal with anyone's unsolicited open about my decision. I plan to DEFINITELY stay in this board. I have found it so helpful already!???? Couldn't have said it better! Way to go keeping your priorities about your goals, needs and everything!

Thanks!!

I think its a matter that should be addressed. Like I said, im not rushing into the dr. to talk about it but I will make sure during my check up that its addressed and I learn whats going on with that. Keep us updated if you find more info on it. I'm 2 months out so its not from the catheter

Certainly understand! One thing I would like to add is that it is NORMAL and GOOD to have these worries and concerns. They are healthy because they motivate us to make the good decisions before surgery. Ultimately the worst thing that happens is the surgery is delayed a bit. And while that is emotionally hard, it is best so that you have the greatest chance at success without complications that you reaaaalllllllyyyy don't want. Being prepared is key. You are on the right track. I wish I could send a magic wand to prepare everyone for the roller coaster they will encounter (some are small coasters and some more challenging) but like you said, before you know it you will be on the other side and headed to a healthy life! Congrats on your decision! Keep us posted!!

So true! I really was afraid to share my decision and progress because I didnt want the negative comments. When I decided that I wasnt ashamed and could handle the comments, I shared it freely with others. I had a GREAT response from friends and most family. There were some negative comments, but they were more concerns than putting me down. They worried about gaining the weight back, or surgery complications. After those fears subsided, they were very supportive. I love sharing my journey and helping others who have questions or need support! I feel closer to friends and family than I ever have. It was definitely me judging them more than the opposite

Congrats! That's awesome!! Keep up the great work! I also do not feel the urge to pee pee I need to talk more to my dr about it during my 2 1/2 month check up next friday. But my understanding is its not uncommon because its not pressing things down on my bladder anymore. They removed 10.5 inches of stomach. However, this being said, I try to make sure I sit down to pee pee every couple of hours whether I feel i need to or not and normally I have to go. I had one UTI already and definitely want to prevent others. Again, great job!

My surgery was May 12th, but I wanted to say GOOD LUCK! and Congrats on your decision!!

My experience was that they will take your stats and may issue blood work to be done by your primary physician. They took my picture at each appointment as well. They will start the necessary process of making sure your heart is strong and seeing what medical issues you have. (ie. diabetes, back pain, hypertension, blood clotting issues, mobility, anemia, thyroid, etc) The surgeon should go over their general philosophy on weight and surgery. Ask them how many they have done and what their general process is from this appointment out. Do they want a 2 week liquid diet? Meet with a nutritionist? How many times before? Do you need to loose weight before the surgery? What are the risks involved in general AND for you personally? What support groups or education do they provide before AND after surgery? How long does the procedure take and how long are you required to stay in the hospital? What medications are generally used or prescribed after surgery? When will your first follow up appointment be? How long from the date of the appointment will it take to schedule surgery? I would make a comprehensive list of questions for the surgeon and also let them give you their thoughts and process on it. Its simply a time to learn about the process (every surgeon is different) and then start the necessary tests and labs for insurance or health clearance. Good luck!!!

Complications happen and I am sorry you went through that even though it was unavoidable. I'm glad it was an "easy" fix. Congrats on your success and best of luck! Keep us posted!!

I think everyone needs to do what works best for them! If that's your feelings on it, then that's the best thing for you! Congrats on your decision to change your life and its great you have selected the people you can trust to be on board with you during the process. Celebrate the successes! Personally, I felt the same way. I was only telling immediate family. I am 5'7'' and started at 256lbs. After surgery and recovery (I'd say after the first month) I had a change of heart on telling my story. I decided I was viewing the surgery as shameful because I do have close family members who have very negative views on wls. However, as my confidence grew, I decided that their views are their issues. I cannot own them. I am EXCITED about the changes and progress. I am not ashamed to have had the surgery (I am also not saying you are. I understand you are different) It is not the easy road. I also only keep close friends who I trust near me or on social media and my profiles are public. Since I wasn't getting the type of support I needed from my family, I turned to Facebook and "came out of the closet" so to speak on surgery. It was a WONDERFUL response. Total support and encouragement. Other friends who have thought about surgery have privately messaged me for advice or my story as well. I am open about it with those I trust and sometimes with general people I see on a day to day basis (one, because I cannot deny the rapid change and two, because I'm proud of it) It took many years to decide that being healthy physically, emotionally and any other way wasn't about anyone else. I am able to roll their comments off that I don't want and focus on staying true to the purpose of the surgery and life change. I only share this because while you are deciding this now, If I may suggest, keep an open mind about the decision. There are risks when telling someone... judgement, comments, etc. BUT there are also many more people who will support and encourage you as you go through the progress!! In the mean time, stay on the boards They are a great support and we love helping each other!!!

Yep! Sleeved on May 12th this year. Best decision ever made Thank you everyone!!!

May 12 down 35 lbs. Currently in a stall but also haven't been getting enough water so I'm working on that Sw 256 Now 201

Love the last response too. I do HALT also, but add thirsty and vitamins. I definitely know when I don't take vitamins I'm crabby. I try to find physical reasons for emotions first. Then examine what else thy can be. Also, the serenity prayer and realizing emotions are just that... emotions. They will pass and change. They are not good or bad. They are my bodies way of letting me know I need something or need to work on something.

@ FocusOnMeNow I'm 7 weeks post op. I know it's not far but I never could have imagined not craving or even imagined looking at chips and not wanting them. But I don't now. Granted that may change Dien the road as my stomach allows more types of food. Which is why I continue with my therapy and working on handling things differently. You'll be OK! Just bring proactive and aware of why you eat now before surgery can be important so you address it as you go. I was surprised before surgery as I took note EVERY time I ate of the reasons why I was eating and it was rarely hunger. Now. It's 99% because I feel my body needing food.

Definitely want to address any issues you have before and and during surgery that have caused you to eat in the past. Good job there. Those things don't magically go away when they remove your stomach. And the honeymoon period where your body won't let you eat doesn't last forever. Eventually you could stretch your stomach out again. That being said, after surgery you won't have the drive to eat. At least for me, when emotions strike and I think... "hey, foods a great idea" , I'll go for the chops and realize I don't want them. Or something sweet.... not appealing AT ALL. Cravings haven't hit yet either. I want Protein and I want Water. So in answer to your question, I do drink water when I feel I need something to sooth me. My pre-surgery self would laugh hysterically at that... but it's true. I don't want anything else. Some days I want to go outside instead also. So putting that depressed energy that used to make me eat to good use where I really do feel better when I'm moving and walking. Total loss: 56lbs

So glad to hear that!!!

Awesome! I'm like a Rollercoaster with emotions these past few weeks. I just hold firm that it will balance out and get better. I reach out to 2 really close friends that I know won't judge and keep on the boards to get help or give where I can. That seems to be working so far

May 12th Sleeve. Sw 256. Cw 203. No more pain all over my body when I wake up, and definitely more energy. My Water bottle is in hand everywhere I go and sits with me at home. I still only get 24-36oz a day. Not drinking any other liquids. Just water. food is going ok. I get close to the Protein goal. I feel good, I'm more confident and happy. Not because I'm thinner, but because I'm sleeping better and waking up happy and able to see future non surgical victories and the activities I will be able to do Congrats on your progress!!

Yay!!!!!!

I've dropped 54lbs and one shoe size down. Plus no longer "wide"

You can DEFINITELY see the weight loss. You're doing great! Beautiful before and beautiful now! keep up the good job

Fat carries estrogen. As you loose it, the estrogen is released into your body. That can really mess with mood. Also, the above post is right. Major surgery plays a huge part. Plys, if you were an emotional eater, you don't have that crutch anymore. It will take time for your body to get used to the changes and hormones and new diet, etc. Please!... reach out to those who support you and to your Dr and let them know. There are options to help . Don't suffer in silence. You made a great choice for your health by having surgery. It will get better!