Kathy473

Ok ladies...let's all drool! It's BILLY LANE!!!! .......and me!!! This was at the Easy Rider Convention in Houston this past fall!! We had a booth for our tattoo shop and we tattooed him!!! OMG!!!! :faint: I might not ride my own but I can hang with em'!!!!!! **He takes his shirt off later to get tattooed!** And yes I have pictures but not sure if it is PC to put it on here...do you think it's ok?

Ok guys! Here is a picture of me and my husband at a wedding in October 2005, exactly one month after surgery...so no big difference yet! And the other is of my man around the same time....ooooh look at the tattoos! I happen to think he is just one sexy man...he doesn't think so but he is the love of my life!! :biggrin1: What a difference huh? Suit and tie and then in his leather! Ooh la la!

I have one too but I haven't donw much to it! I think I spend most of my time on this site and others!! So, if you see me...not alot there! But send me a message and I will add you!

ooooooh Let's see....I have a fear of the main character from the movie Halloween, Michael Myers...Freaks me out! I am not really that freaked out about scary movies but there is something about him that I am scared of. The thought of something happening to my kids is a BIG fear. Roaches, wasps, bees.....:omg: and Zombies...hate them. Now things that you would think would be scary I would love to encounter. Ghosts...OMG! I would love to see them and have contact with them...Vampires... Very cool....Old damp castles, haunted plantations, haunted French Quarter in New Orleans (LOVE IT). I just get a thrilling sensation about it all. I listen to haunting music and love bands that have that type of sound to their music like H.I.M., Lacuna Coil, Nox Arcana. I love the night, wind blowing, trees rustling, dark, quiet, full moons, moss hanging from trees, ravens and crows, cemeteries in the day AND night. I don't know, maybe it's the mystery of it all or the romanticism, the unknown, the thrilling chill of it all....call me weird! But I love it. Sounds like me and Porclndoll have a few things in common when it comes to ghosts and cemeteries! :rip: I liked your thoughts on bats flying and humans walking....it is so true!

I saw your post Paul...bad boy...how's the arm?!! But where are all the other men? I guess you are the brave one!! :hail: :Banane23:

Hey Heather I have a piercer at my shop when you are ready!! I am just south of Houston! hehe!

Thank you Dee! I know I need to get rid of the Yahoo avatar and put up a real pic! :biggrin1: I was going to last night when I figured out how to actually put a picture on a thread and then I had to go roll around in bed with my man! So I will try to get to that tonight! :Banane23: Girl don't be scared about getting a tattoo...the outline of the tattoo hurts more than the actual coloring in of the tattoo since it is more precise. It is a big explanantion of how it all works but in the end you have your own piece of art you can take with you and display! And if you can pierce your nose and tongue YOU can get a tattoo!!!! Too bad you don't live around here...I'd take you to my shop and fix you up! Oh by the way...Dee you look like a girl I went to high school with and she was a doll...looks like the two of you have a similar trait! Keep smiling!

Thanks for the warning Paul! I am sure all of us will be ready with beer in one hand and the other ready to get a firm hold! :beer: :eyebrows: Right ladies??

Hey Nykee!!! If you like the clothes at Hot Topic then you will like the clothes and shoes at www.torrid.com This is a sister store to Hot Topic and it is just for plus-size women. I am actually wearing a shirt from there now. They have some nice stuff! :biggrin1:

By the way....I have noticed how all the women are responding to this thread...where are all the men? I would think that this could pertain to them also. But then again....women can talk about this more openly than men can but we can still help! :Banane23:

OMG! Heather you are so funny! "Official Member"!!!! I like the little banana!! Hilarious!

LAISSEZ LES BONS TEMPS ROULER!! LET THE GOODTIMES ROLL!!!!!! :beer: :Banane23: HAVE A GREAT TIME AT MARDI GRAS!!! YOU ARE GOING TO LOOK GREAT!

Kellie I think you need to make a trip down to Houston and drink the water!!! Seems like it's in the Water over here! I think the women of Houston need to start the club Houston Hornytoads a reality! WOO! But in all seriousness Kellie...Have you talked to your fiance about this and asked him what he thinks?? Some guys like to be creative or nasty if given the oppurtunity and know that sex is involved. :guess Just a thought. Might be worth a try to let him be the one with the control OR vice versa...turn the tables on him and be the dominating one and take control.

I know! I have read your posts and thought that we are both two horny women...Must be in the water in Houston!!!! Yeehaw!

Thanks Tricia! I saw your pics last night and you look great too. Congrats on your weight loss! :clap2:

Well, my sex life never sucked, even at my heaviest and now that I have lost my husband still treats me the same as he did before. I look at myself more and feel better about myself. Yeah, we have the treasure chest of toys and our friends always talk about 'the closet' :omg: But we don't use them as much as people would think. We just have a variety to choose from! I would talk to to your OB/Gyn or regular physician about it. There might be an underlying problem that you do not know about. I knew people that talked to there doctor and didn't feel depressed but were diagnosed as depressed and put on stuff like Paxil or Prozac and it gave them a new lease on life. You never know what can help. Pop in a porno and see how that works! Sometimes all it takes is that one long, deep, passionate kiss out of the blue that sends a shiver everywhere and gets the blood pumping. You know that feeling when you first met? That is the best when you get it back in one hot kiss or just a sweet glance that makes you blush from across the room. Stare for no reason...get him thinking. The sexy lingerie can work, change your hair, a different perfume, music...full face of make-up is sexy too with your hair done up sexy....and candles....set the mood and let everything fall into place. Okay....now that I have said this I want to go into my hubby's office and lock the door!!! We work together. :Banane23: Be creative and adventurous and most of all spontaneous and have fun!

Even the most conservative get them!! I swore that I would never get one and it all started with a little one that was covered up on my back by my big one! Then I got the fever! They are very addictive!! But I totally understand! :biggrin1: Lots of pain on my back but my arms were fine..not alot of pain at all! It's scary at first! I know! I got light headed and flushed on my first! Got fresh air and then...:faint:LOL!!

Well, tattooes are right up my alley so here are mine. I think everyone should put there tats on this thread. This is a great idea Anwyn! I won 2nd place for back at the Live Fast 2005 Tattoo Convention in Houston, TX and it is published on Tattoo Directory under Best of 2005! I haven't put either arm in competition but I have thought about it. Hopefully the one on my back doesn't change but if it does a little I will just have to have more work done! Come on Bandsters...Show us your tats! :clap2:

Thank you so much!! Well, I can do the tattoo part easy seeing that I own the shop!! :thumb: That would be an awesome idea! Maybe I should have one of my artists design a tattoo for me when I get to my goal weight!!! :clap2: And Hot Topic is down the road!! I am there! By the way....LOVE the boots...pic is a little dark but I can still see them! :biggrin1:

Now that I have this figured out...finally!...I can put my before and after pictures like everyone else! :biggrin1: 1st pic - June 2005 2nd pic - today!

Ok...I hope this comes out right...new at this...attaching pictures and all. The first picture is in June 4, 2005 (3 months prior to surgery) and the second is tonight January 30, 2006 (almost 5 months after surgery). I think the shirt in the first picture is a 20. And the outfit in the second is a size 14 pants (baggy!) and the shirt is an XL. I forgot to add that the clothes in the second picture ARE NOT from Lane Bryant like the first one. The pants are from Ross and the shirt is from Hot Topic! I have waited a few years to wear shirts from Hot Topic! And I will add pictures of my tattoos later...my back is covered and both upper arms are done.

Ok guys! I found some pictures on my computer the other night and my friends could not believe the difference. Therefore, I will be adding them as soon as I can!! This is just cool seeing everyone!

I think it's great that you are getting the attention...you deserve it! I am in the same boat as you...happily married!! And I think it makes a marriage and a sex life better!!! Because if you are getting cat-calls and it makes you feel more confident in yourself and feel more sexier, to me...it makes the sexy come out! I feel smaller in his arms and not as frumpy! Make sense? My husband and I are around alot of men because of the fact that he belongs to a motorcycle club and all of our friends, especially the men, tell me how great I look and that DH better watch out and treat me right or they are coming after me! :faint: That is a great compliment and I know they are teasing too so it makes for good fun! Don't be scared of it girl! Enjoy it! :clap2: Just wait until you change something else like your hair or your make-up even...they notice that too! :biggrin1: And along with the weightloss comes a new style...wear clothing that you would have never worn before...it is so worth it! Enjoy this time and cherish it...don't fret about it...it's all good! And it gets better!

:cheer2: AWESOME NSV!! CONGRATULATIONS!

:omg: Oh my goodness....Parvathi! Girl if you have the rhythm to 2-step then you can club dance. Everyone does something different, no one is the same. Although I do have the types of friends that love dirty dancing at clubs but then all you have to do is pretend to be making out on the dance floor!!! And DH loves it because they are women friends!!! LOL! SO just go out there and own it! Do what makes you feel good and the rest comes naturally. :biggrin1: