pleasecoffee

I am coming up on my 1 year in March and have lost 77 lbs so far. the dr wants me to be at 155-160 per BMI chart. here is the thing, I haven't lost anything since I hit 175 two months ago. my bone structure isn't meant for 155. I have a body, even though now much slimmer, of a line backer. my dad calls me the Russian beat farmer, but I blame him, since his entire family looks like this. pants, no matter what, except jeggings, fit funny. my hips, and I can feel the bones won't let size 8 up, but my legs need it. when I put on 10s it looks like I am wearing my ex husbands pants. anyone else have this issue?

1 am 177 now, and happy with that. day of surgery aug 7th, at 180 lbs

Another supporter of the mirena. Love it!!!

sacramento area. Love it here.

ISTJ - Introvert(9%) Sensing(16%) Thinking(9%) Judging(6%)

so 2015 is a year of change for me. I had surgery, finalized my divorce, got a drastic haircut, put my kids in charter school, and fixed my relationship with my parents. so I want to start dating again. I have been catfished quite a bit, ghosted several times, but I finally have started talking to someone via text and phone. I have not told him about my WLS (RNY), but we get along great when we talk. he hasn't texted me first in the last week. And I am trying to hold out. I did text him yesterday just to say hi, and that conversation lasted maybe 20 messages. it's not like we can just get together either, he lives in another state 4 hrs away. But he is in town at least twice a month. I think he is fading, or looking for someone closer to him my thing is how do you get over the rejection, the constant rejection of fading. I have yet to meet anyone face to face. And when do you tell them about the surgery? Things have changed so much since I was in the dating scene 15 years ago. sorry if I am rambling, but I just need to get this off my chest. and I'm kind of confused about the whole dating process in general.

add one more to your list, separated last Aug, divorced last month, surgery in march. It's hard out there. Northern CA here