I just received an e-mail from this discussion forum saying I have not been active on the site for awhile. This is only because I spend 18 months meeting a lot of requirements for my lap band surgery only to be told my insurance company, United Healthcare, they will not cover my procedure because "it hasn't been proven effective for my obesity". I have addressed the issue from the start that when I lost the 10% weight requirement that I would be around a 37 BMI and I wanted to make sure that I would still qualify, and I was assured I would be fine. I have spent close to $1000.00 in insurance co-pays, days off from work, cardiac testing, sleep apnea testing, education classes at the bariatric center and psycological testing only to be denied by insurance and I do not have the money to private pay. Once again, I feel like I have been taken advantage of because I am obese and looking for help. Your forum has been great in answering my questions but I get terribly sad when I am in there and think to myself I could of been one of those success stories if they had just given me a chance.