I have told a few at work,most of my family knows except my Mom,I'm going to tell her with flowers and a card! My in laws know. I told my Dad before I lost him due to Complications of Type 2 Diabetes. He made me promised him to have this surgery no matter what anyone tells me and that he loves me! Those were his last words to me. I promised him and I told him I loved him. I didn't know he was so sick and dying he didn't want the rest of the family to let me know cause I was too attached to him.