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I was worried about my husband and I after I had weight loss surgery more because he met me as a big woman and loves them that way. I feared he would no longer be attracted to me getting smaller. I had surgery two years ago and have gone to counseling both individual and couples just to make sure I kept my head on straight and my husband was able to deal with the changes as well. We have been together for 10 years! I would say the key is really talking to one another.

I am also worried, super worried about gaining the weight back. I have started seeing someone to hopefully drop my mental baggage so I do not turn to emotional eating. other then that I am just going to have pushing through one day at a time. I know for me being aware of my pit falls have been helping me out a little bit, but I still have a long way to go.

I know I have been struggling with myself. I have searched for help on getting my mind on straight, I just really wish it would work faster. I am not sure if the person that I am working with is helpful on the food aspect of my issues. If wanted to find someone that works just on a food/emotional eating issue what should I be looking for?

Hello everyone, I am two years out from having my RNY surgery. At first I felt like everything was going great and it really isn't to bad. But in the last couple of weeks I have put on 4 pounds and I am freaking out about it. I feel like I have failed this surgery. I just need some help and encouragement to get me back on track and lose this 4 pounds I put on and 15 more that I wanted to lose after surgery. Any one else put on weight 2 plus years out? And if so where you able to take it back off and how did you do it? Thanks for any help you can give me. Therese

I am currently located in Anchorage, Alaska.