Dub
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Sure.....we can all just get along. However.....we can also take it to a higher level by nudging some silly notions outa each other's noggins from time to time. I know for a damn fact that my trajectory has been improved a number of times by the vets here....who posted their opinions that were clearly against my grain and yet their wisdoms hit home. There is no substitute for experience. My opinion is that only a fool would shirk that wisdom, when provided. I've learned to listen carefully.....evaluate and then either incorporate it or call it rubbish and move on. I'm all about not reinventing the wheel. If a template for success is laid out in front of me......why in the hell do I want to venture down an alternate path ???????? I'm a hardheaded guy and don't listen well at times......but I've become a quick study when needed......in crunch times. I consider the health scares I've had the year leading up to my VSG such a "crunch time". I've listened carefully to those who've gone before me......and I am better for it. I've learned to accept life according to the words of a woman that I cherish......"Suck it up Buttercup" and move forward. Only a damn fool would denounce the collective wisdoms of successful patients who've made 2+ years and beyond and are rocking the results. Only a damn fool.................
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My ego is gone...I've told virtually everyone in my life that I've had this surgery, because this is IT for me. I'm almost 52, I've been either chubby or fat since my first child was born in '92 and I'm through pretending I can lose this weight without serious, drastic help. There's a tiny bit of pride left that tells me perhaps me being so open about it will destigmatize this down the road for someone else, but who am I fooling :-) Dub, I appreciate you and your way with 'telling it like it is'. Thanks for the time you take to help the rest of us.
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I totally realize that the main objective of this site is profit via the Mexico surgeries and product sales and the vets don't offer much as far as that goes, but to the detriment of this site, as they are pushed out, so is the actual credibility of the "support" it offers. There is a fine line, IMO, and that fine line was seriously damaged in the last few months. It's a shame. It could be all that and more. The all mighty dollar is winning out over the balance of good advice and potential dollars.
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