Karen, I'm new to this site and am struggling too! I had surgery nearly four years ago and the weight is coming back on. I developed GERDS, which my physician indicated is a result of me eating around my band. He emptied by band which then allowed me to eat more. I know what I need to do, but having trouble doing it. I guess the point I'm trying to make is that you aren't alone in your struggle.
Is it possible to join a support group in your area? I keep thinking that would help me, but they set the meetings when I've barely gotten off work. As a commuter, I can't make it in the time allowed.
I'm here to offer any motivation I can. Maybe if we could create our own support system our chances of succeeding would improve.