Hey Dancing Fool, your reply sounds like something I would have written. Had surgery on a Wednesday morning, back to work on Monday. I have the same kinds of meals as you as well.
I have 8, count them 8 incision scars. Kind of misleading though because I have previous orthoscopic kidney surgery. I show them off to my grandkids and say I was in a knife fight.
Seriously, scars are not a big deal.
- I can only feel the port but I notice the band if I concentrate on it when swallowing. It's not unpleasant though.
- I experienced mild acid reflux right after the surgery but it only lasted a few days.
- The band has been a positive reminder for me. I know it's there so I eat better. I used to scarf down food when I was in a hurry. The band prevents me from doing that now.
- Toughest aspect? For me, it's following the rules. Eat slow, chew longer, drink a lot of Water. I have to think about these things and make them a habit. Many times, I forget I have the band and eat too fast.
- Advice? Do your research. It's only effective if you make an effort. You can cheat with the band if you want to so make sure you are committed to the game.
Good luck!