KindaFamiliar

I just considered taking and posting a selfie but then decided against it... I know this may sound weird, but my biggest fear is rivalling that dodgy Kardashian chick in the 'breaking the internet' stakes... You see - I'm hot.. Not luke-warm... Not tepid.. I'm hot... In fact I'm so... Oh s**t... Hang on a sec... I'm thinking of someone else... Never mind... As you were...

You say that at six months you were "allowed so much more"... You weren't forced to have more... Why not go back to the way things were in the first six months... Obviously you're not ready to make the change... The mental game is just as important as the physical... Go back, get your head right and move on only when YOU are ready... Of course, I don't know nuthin' about nuthin'... But it might be worth a crack... Good luck @@sbg224 Keep us posted...

You're doing well @@demonchick It will all come to you... And what doesn't can be covered in here... Ask anything... No matter how seemingly personal or confronting... There's very little judgement here... Good luck to you!!!

Congrats, well done and welcome...

@@jintycb "Practise clothes"?? Unless you "practice" in a piece of thread that will not even contain your plums (not that you have them I assume) the I think you're gonna have to do better than that...

@@jintycb You think your promise was foolish?? I made a deal with a friend of mine that if she came on a cruise in November (group thing), I'd Celebrate my weight loss by posing for pics on the top deck of the ship, wearing nothing but a flouro green mankini!!! Oh yeah... Who's the foolish one now????

My amateur opinion is as follows... You've just had major surgery... I mean, what we have done to us, it's some heavy s**t!! For now, forget who has been to visit or who is checking in.. You've got more important things to worry about... Focus on getting yourself up and about as soon as you can... Focus on getting your Protein and your Water into you... Focus on what your surgeon says you can/cannot/should do... Your friend are probably unsure how to react or help out... They'll come good... And if they don't - so be it.. It's YOU time now... Even if the only one to focus on you is YOU... And don't forget that as your fat 'melts', stored up hormones and stuff are released... And that can REALLY f**k your s**t up... You'll get there @@bama41 Just hang here as much as you need to and ask as many questions as you want... But before you ask, look around the forum... Most questions have already been answered to some degree... Good luck to you mate... Keep us posted here as the days and weeks unfold for you...

Well... That escalated quickly...

@@Sharon1964 Your post made me laugh... Out loud... In a room by myself... Like a crazy man... And I don't laugh... Ever!! Good job. That is all...

Yep... I had to look... The TMI warning was too much to resist.. And I got exactly what I deserved...

Oh... It's not about me... I saw "Feeling Kinda..." and thought I'd best see what was happening... But alas, it's not as I had hoped... Anyway, I'll go with this... Hang around this place... There's all sorts of support and stuff... And please notice that, as requested - No rudeness!!

Don't listen to any of them... You just listen to me... CRAZY!!! That is all...

Oooorrrrrr... Those who enjoy chat can just go there and hang out until someone else turns up... That's what I do most (Australian) evenings despite the fact that this forum is mostly folks from the US who are asleep at this time... Sometimes nobody turns up... Sometimes people do... In my opinion, formalizing who can chat and when and what about (potentially) is a little unnecessary... Let's just hang out and meet people... Too many rules crushes my spirit... Or something like that.. Of course, I could be wrong...

I concur... Definitely crazy... That is all...