Good Lord! Don't let that moron have rent free space in your head! You are not the cause of HER issues! Let it go. You know who YOU are...why do you care what SHE thinks? It's just not important! I, too, am covered in scars from many surgeries, but I don't give a darn what others think. I am a survivor. All you can do is pray for that person to not have to go through what you did because she wouldn't have stood a chance at going through what you went through.
God never gives a cross that we cannot carry. Some of us are just a lot stronger so we get the bigger burdens.
Make peace with it.
Love,
Abby