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Bethson

Gastric Sleeve Patients
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About Bethson

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About Me

  • Gender
    Female
  • City
    Fort dodge
  • State
    Iowa

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  1. Tomorrow I go back to work. Today I attended an event at work. It was the first they have seen me in a little over two weeks. One person who I consider a friend, but not real close, commented about my weight loss (about 30 pounds in the last month with the pre surgery diet) and noted that something must be wrong that I lost all that weight in such a short time. I had told coworkers I was off two weeks for medical purposes, but didn't want her to believe I had something dire wrong with me, so commented that I had the surgery. She said "oh", walked away, and didn't mention it again. Wow! That's why I don't want to tell people but I also don't want to lie or lead them to believe I am wasting away with cancer or something. This will be an interesting return to work as I will have to field questions or just know I am being gossiped about. The gossip I can handle. It's the rejection or whatever that bothers me.

    1. Miss Mac

      Miss Mac

      You don't have to lie, but you don't have to tell everything you know.

    2. ShrinkingPeach

      ShrinkingPeach

      Agreed with Miss Mac. Just know that rejection is something within them and not about you. Good luck!

       

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