1. I had planned on 2 weeks, but I ended up taking 3 and I'm glad I did. I was really exhausted after the surgery and it took me a while to get my energy up. It could be different for you though.
2. I wasn't on soft foods until a week out. I started on Clear liquids, then protien shakes, then soft foods.
3. Like I said in answer to question #1, it took me a while to get moving. I was doing better after a bout 5 weeks post op.
4. The worst pain you will probably have is from the gas you get after surgery. It really feels horrible. While you are on pain meds you won't notice it too much. I made the error of not having any pain meds for the ride home from the hospital (about 1 1/2 hr. drive!) It was horrible.
5. I take an anti-depressant and had to have it changed from "time release" to immediate release due to absorption factors.
6. I don't use the pill, but in my booklet it said not to take this kind of medication for a month after surgery, I think because of the possibility of blood clots.
7. Congrats on getting your insurance to pay, and hang in there. If a big baby like me can get through this so can you!