ss about what your husband said.ive been withmy husband married 25 yrs and known him 32,hes known me heavy and skinny even tho thats along time ago i was.hes always loved me no matter and has always tryed to help me with every new diet i tryed.jenny craig worked pretty good but was alot of money plus buying there foods.todays my birthday and nxt monday i get my lap band,i know no matter what i got the best husband ever,hes always tryed his best to help me and love me,so get your weight off them a make your mind up on your husband,i know this much he should never tryed to hurt you.im just glad i have mine,and im sry for what yours said yo you,youll be looking great soon inside and out.