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LAP-BAND Patients
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  • Birthday 01/01/1980
  1. Happy 33rd Birthday restricted!

  2. Happy 32nd Birthday restricted!

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    Worries, freak outs, and questions!

    For each person the lap band is different. Remember, it is adjustable. If you are too loose, it can be tightened. Your biggest problem may be it's not doing much initially. You'll lose a bit of weight immediately before and after surgery mostly due to dietary limitations. After your recovery is complete, until you are tightened and attain restriction the lap band won't be doing much of anything. Once restricted, portions of most foods will be limited, and your relation with liquids will need to change. People with lap bands can cheat. One method is washing stuff down, another method is drinking high calorie liquid or near liquid stuff. For example, I can down as much ice cream as I want, but 3 McNuggets is my limit. Each person experiences the band differently. Your goal should be to follow the diet and lose weight. Without doing any exercise (knee injury after surgery) and without much in the way of trying to diet (other than following the basic rules most of the time, with the exception of occasional departures), my weight is down 75 lbs in a bit over 6 months. If you ask yourself, would it be worth it to lose weight without having to try very hard? What would your answer be? I don't know how much weight you have to lose, and know my loss isn't typical, however some have lost more. It is normal to be afraid of surgery, and the lap band does change your relationship with food. Even after many months of being on a restricted diet, I productively burped twice today. I'm more restricted in the morning, and for some reason today beverage and my morning meds were too much for my stomach. Another thing to consider is relationship to coffee. Some are very addicted to the stuff but don't know it. If you withdraw a coffee addict from it suddenly, there will be the potential for severe headaches and vomiting. For me personally, coffee has become poison. It is different for each person. My suggestion based on personal experience is to try and limit some nasty addictions prior to lap band surgery. In my case, coffee turned out to be an unexpected problem. It may be very different for you. For years my suffering with weight seemed to be my fault, and there was no relief. Today, I'm on my way, not to a skinny person, but to a person who isn't morbidly obese. What is that worth to any of us?
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    Wine is so divine.. or is it? lol

    One time does not an addict make. However, be careful. You may find this interesting - Bariatric surgery trades obesity for alcoholism Before you belly up to the operating table for that bariatric surgery, take note that while you might be eliminating the consequences of one form of compulsive behavior — overeating — you may not be dealing with the underlying cause, and if that cause goes untreated, you could find yourself merely engaging in “addiction transfer” — and in the grip of some new and different compulsive behavior such as alcoholism, chain smoking, obsessive gambling or binge shopping.
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    Signs when you are full ..I hiccup

    I start sneezing when full.
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    afraid to give away "fat clothes"????

    You must do what your heart tells you to do. In my case, I tossed my thin clothes when fat, and am tossing my fat clothes as I get thinner.
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    140 lbs!?!?!?!

    I may be in the minority here. My expectation is not to be thin, but to not be as morbidly obese as when I was banded.
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    Demand Your Fills

    I'm not a doctor, and didn't graduate from medical school. I see my doctor for treatment and rely on his expertise. If he wants me to wait a few weeks, I trust him enough to accept that advice. Walking around with a fat chip on our shoulders, won't help us, or those who are trying to help us in my opinion.
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    Questions from others while eating out!

    Anyalee, I see you've computed a weight at which you'll no longer require CPAP. Can you please tell me how this works. Thanks!
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    Prebander a little overwhelmed!

    Mary, Cheer up, the tests are for your own good. I'm glad my doctor required so many tests, and yes, it is overwhelming. Try to get them done one at a time, eventually the list is done.
  11. Thank you all. Guess I'll not pester for a fill. I'm amazed at how easy it is to lose with the band, even without restriction.
  12. I have an appointment with my internist, the first since lap band surgery. While I detest scales, I prefer to believe the bariatric surgeon has the most accurate. Today on my visit to the bariatric surgeons office, my weight is exactly 50 lbs less than my pre-surgery weight. I now have a weight to give my internist. The 50 lb loss is in less than 2 months since surgery. At this time, my concern is no restriction. However, since my last weigh in 2 weeks ago I've lost another 10 lbs. My weight loss seems to be slowing, but my doctor does not believe a fill is necessary if weight loss is in excess of 2 lbs a week. Should I wait for a fill until a plateau is reached, or should I push for a fill to accelerate the weight loss?
  13. Hi, When I make an appointment to see my doctor for a fill, the person on the phone takes down my information and schedules the fill. At the time of my fill, a random doctor in the practice will appear. Does this happen to anyone else?
  14. I'll add this family to my prayer list.
  15. Results vary by person. The lap band is a tool, it helps with portion control and can help limit overeating. Exercise, decent eating habits, and working with your band are all important. My doctor indicated that most people with the band will lose about 70% of their excess weight. It seems to vary a lot.

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