Dear @Steph77498
I just had my VSG surgery last Thursday, and I was nervous too. I'd had surgery before, but not elective. The support you will get is amazing, and they do this all the time. Best advice I can give you is to do everything like they tell you, use the pain meds, sip Water, do your breathing exercises and walk. Walking is the best for the gas and the gas is the really uncomfortable part after surgery. Don't be afraid to ask the nurses for help and advice - they are good friends in the process.
You are going to be great - and starting a new path to health and care for yourself. I just had to keep thinking about the "why" ....it helped me with the low points and hopefully it will help you through the temporary discomforts.
Pre-op is boring - but within 3 days after surgery there is some variety ( not that I have any interest in food at all). During my pre-op I added broths for dinner so it felt like I was having Soup with something warm. And added some fruit to my Protein Shakes and blended. As long as you aren't adding a lot of fruit calories, add some berries to a chocolate shake may make it a little more interesting.
I'm not much further ahead of you - but I am excited for you!