I have been pretty selective with who I have told. My husband, of course, because he was my "responsible adult." I told my parents because they are super supportive. I told my boss out of necessity and a couple of co-workers. Now that I have had the surgery and had no major complications, I am telling more folks at work. There are two other coworkers who have also had WLS. However, I have completely avoided telling my mother-in-law and all the brothers and sisters. We do not see each other all that often, so I am hoping to surprise them with a healthier, trimmer me in a few weeks/months.