I agree that the waiting is making me nuts. I started this process a year ago. My first appointment with the surgeon was July 31, 2014 where I was accepted into the program. There were lots of appointments (sleep study, upper GI and contrast testing, and physical therapy) to confirm I am healthy enough to have gastric bypass. saw dr. on March 12th for final approval, also saw nutritionist for copy of 1000-calorie diet that I will be on for 3 weeks before surgery. then had to wait for insurance to give their ok (that was the hardest 3 weeks ever). will have surgery on June 26th (still 2 months away) but I am using this time to adjust to a new life of eating food for fuel and not emotions, giving up soda and sugar, as well as finding a support system - glad I found this site.
even though the waiting is hard, living in the body I have now is much worse. Keep looking forward and the waiting will be over soon. Good Luck.