Missmaven- I am also 33 years old at started at the same weight, are you my long lost twin:)
I had my LB surgery Dec 12, 2007. I felt the same way you did, but getting the band won out because I didn't like who I had become. My current weight is 226 - I am happier, heathier, and actually want to put on a pair of shorts this summer:)
Good luck in you decision making - I think you will find the answer within.