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I feel so much better knowing I am not alone on this. I was just reading How the Lap-Band actually works, fills and refills by Wendell Edwards and that helped so much too. It seems that once you feel like your band isn't working like it should, then you start to eat more of the wrong things, at least for me that's how it is. Now I know I will probably need 1,2,3 or more fills to reach my sweet spot. I can't wait!!!!! Thanks everyone, you are all lifesavers!!!!!! :cool2:

Hi Wendell, I know this post was from a year ago tomorrow, but I am feeling the exact same way. I was banded on 6/18/08 and have only had one fill, I moved out of state before my 6 weeks so I couldn't get one done in NY, and when I got to IN, I had a really hard time finding a Dr. to do my fills, so long story short, I will have my 2nd fill tomorrow and right now could eat anything! No restriction what so ever. :cool2:( I'm just glad I wasn't the only one who thought the band wasn't working. Hope your journey is going well.

I was banded in NY and moved to Indiana before I was allowed to have my first fill, then I had to find a Dr. to do it. I don't eat the same quantities, but not a tiny amount either. I think I will need it about 50% too, at least it feels like it right now. It can be so discouraging! When will you get your 3rd? I will tell the Dr. everything that's going on or isn't tomorrow {gulp}! I hope you find your sweet spot soon too.

Hello, I was banded on June 18th of this year and had my first fill in a 10cc band on Sept. 2. I now have about 3cc's. I will go for my second fill tomorrow, but kind of want to know if any of you didn't experience getting anything stuck, sliming/PB'ing at this stage in your journey. I know a lot of you have trouble with certain kinds of food, but I can eat anything. Tortilla chips, steak, chicken all of the things others have problems with. Is my band working???? I am not losing/gaining any weight.:smile: And to top it all off, my hair is falling out and feels so unhealthy. :cool2: Thanks!!!!

I found a Dr.!!!! Thanks to all!!! Dr. Steven Clark near Indy, so much closer than Chicago!!! I go next week for my first fill!! :thumbup: Thanks again!!!!

Hi Isabell, I am an Lap Band orphan too. I had my surgery done in NY 6/2008 and less than 6 weeks later we moved to middle of nowhere Indiana where I had to find a center that would do my fills, which most of them won't if you didn't have your surgery there. I finally found one (thanks to the girls on here!!), and will have my 1st fill next week @ 11weeks!!!! My surgeon and his staff never helped me find another center and didn't give me a plan to follow until then. I was totally disappointed. My "elevator" is the cell phone sales guys in the mall that ask every woman/girl who walks by to stop by, except me. Not that I need a phone, but to be treated as if I don't exist and not walking by is very humiliating. Great success to all of you, WE deserve it!!!!!!!

Thanks for all the info, I will give them a call today to see if they will take me and try giving my band Dr. a call for them to look for me as well (they were supposed to have done that and gotten back to me, so I will call them again). I do have an appt. at Univ of Illinois tomorrow, but would sooooo go somewhere closer. Anyone know of any support groups near Lafayette? Thanks!!!!! Kristi

Hi Everyone, I had my surgery done on June 18th of this year in New York (lived in Jersey), but when I moved it was too soon for a fill. Now I am 9 weeks post op tomorrow and can't seem to find anyone in Indiana to do my fills. They all say if I didn't have my surgery there they won't see me. I am in West Lafayette, and found a place in Chicago (they don't know how to return calls), but want to go somewhere closer. Does anyone know if such a place exists here? :confused2: I haven't gained any weight, but it sure isn't coming off either. ( Stuck in a rut in Indiana..... or a cornfield. LOL!

ha! Now I'm curious, gonna go check out the mens group! LOL!!

LOL!! I've got one of those balls, I'm gonna try it out tonight!!!!! {so excited!!} :biggrin2: Thanks for the tips ladies!!!! BTW, I think your leg length might have a lot to do with it, I'm 5'2" and have short stubby legs. So it makes it hard {no pun intended,lol} to get a good straddle.

I am LMAO!!! I have never scrolled all the way down the groups, so I never even knew this one was here. Love it!!! Now, how much protein could we "loose women" expect to get out of our honeys? LOL!!

LMAO!!!!! :thumbs_up: That was great! You GO girl, show him what he's missing out on! :w00t: Let us know how that goes. Kristi

Same boat as all of you. I had my surgery on 6/18 and am only a week out, but the mental hungry is killing me!! Not really, but I am getting angry with myself for doing this, thinking, I was happy before, eating is a part of our family, I enjoy eating!! Then, as the rest of the fam eats a yummy dee-lish dinner (that I made) and I am steaming in the living room, I say to myself that I was happy only eating, the result of all the eating was hell. So, I changed my attitude and blended up 5 sf orange ice pops and a vanilla shake. It wasn't amazing, but it worked. Another ?, why are some people who had surgery around the same time as me on mushies?:blushing:? My Dr. said only Protein Shakes and sf Clear Liquids (not even Jello or pudding :hurray:) for another 2 weeks!! What gives? What has everyone else's Dr. told them? Kristi (sorry it was so long)