lauraellen80
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I'm six months out today and 77.2 lbs down from surgery day (103.6 lbs down total). Hit my goal weight last week and finally got my waist measurement under 30" today. Whew!
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Soooooo... I hit goal today...? Actually, .4 lb below...? I don't feel "done," really, so I'm ambivalent, I guess... thinking of shooting for another 10 lbs...
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You do know that the majority of women in this country are size 12 and above, right? If you are a size 6, you are a small lady. I'm a size 6 in jeans, and a size 8-10 in dresses. I spent two years in therapy because my head could not keep up with my physical changes. I suspect you are at that point in your journey. What you are feeling is very legitimate...as I felt the same way. If you cannot get your head around your new size, think about talking to a professional. I know it helped me tremendously. Good luck!
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I wonder if you really are bigger than the women you know or if you see yourself that way. Are you close to any of them, I mean close enough friends to ask what size they wear? When I first lost weight with the band I felt that way too and then I asked a friend who I thought was way smaller and we were the same size. Granted she was taller but it made me feel better. BUT... judging by your after picture I think you look fantastic and no bigger than the average woman in most places.
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@gowalking -- I'm in therapy already; I started pre-op. I'm definitely going to be bringing this issue up at my next session. I guess there is a part of my brain that keeps saying, "Oh, come on... those size sixes must just be a fluke. Maybe they were marked wrong... yes, even though you wear a six in different brands from different stores. There's no way you could be smaller than a 12, I mean seriously," @VDLT -- I'm really not close enough to any of the women I know to ask their sizes. But I am certain that I am truly bigger than they are--most of them are marathon runners.
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