Kimmie K. . .trust me, if your husband says he loves you & will always want you, you've got a good start. With you being married, at least you do have some security in that you are w/ somebody who already loves you. After you get banded & supermodel-looking guys are stalking you, at least you'll know you're w/ somebody who loved you unconditionally! You guys will probably have some of the wildest days/nights of passion after you get banded & begin to feel good about you again. You're like a good investment. . .he loves you now & will continue to do so, but after you get back to feeling your best, he's gonna get a HUGE pay off!