I read your story and this sound so familiar to me. People are quick to judge. I was also told " have you condiser going to the gym or walking instead of surgery" my answer was your body tells you what is best for you. My body is not at a stage right now to go to the gym. walking? please, i felt as if i were having a race with my heart. by me having the lap band done was a new begining again. to start doing what i needed to do in my 20, and start fresh.
now im walking without the rapid heart beats. going to the gym 4 time a week. This surgery was not a easy way out by no means neccessary. we still have a tough road ahead of us for the rest of our lives. lol so no it's not the easy way out.
i dislike idiots and jerks!!!!
congrats on your decision.