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How about a compromise to 155 and then see how you feel. Our minds play tricks on us our eyes see us looking bigger or smaller than we really are. You have done fantastic! Remember it is a number..I have to tell myself that all the time. But if you are wearing the clothes size that you want then perhaps the scale # in't something you sound worry so much about. Wow you have lost 90 pounds in less than a year! That is FANTASTIC!

Sunshine that is great to hear thanks! I can only speak for me, however it is embarrassing to me when things get so petty on here. What a waste of enery and time. I will not waste any more time on that. I do hope that this childish behavior is over looked and that you are able to take what you need and use it the way that best fits you. Good Luck. I was banded on 9/26. I went to the Dr yesterday and he printed out my progress sheet. On my initial visit I weighed 268 as of yesterday I am 187. My BMI was 44.5 when I started today it is 31.1 I have lost a total of 81 pounds in 14 months. I have had problems, and a major problem at that. My band and port both had a leak in them. This is pretty rare, but does happen. On February 21st I had surgery again and the port and band was replaced. The band has saved my life made me more confident in myself. It has also made me so much more aware of head issues. For me that is the hardest part and the key to success for any type of WL. In my 14 Dr visits in the past 14 months I have lost anywhere from 1.1 pounds to 11.7 pounds (that was yesterdays!) I did gain .8 at one visit which wasn't fun but Thank God for the option of having a fill! My second surgery was much more difficult that the first surgery. But if it happened again I would do it in a heart beat.

What a thoughtful wonderful gift. You are blessing not only he lucky person but all of us.

Hey guys, I haven't been able to catch up I hope everyone is doing well. Mandy-Thanks Eileen- Thanks, I am getting nervous about going. I wish I would grow out of this! I developed 2 pictures today one on our 25 Anniversary and the other the next month on the cruise and I couldn't believe the difference in myself. I hadn't even lost weight in that time, so hopefully I will be positive. I tell you part of me wants to cancel! Cass-How fun your first tree together. Sherry-That stinks! Sorry about MIL why don't you get her a gift card fot the local grocery card and tell her that you know how much she likes to eat! Betty-That is so funny!

Wow you sure have a lot of advice here. Not much I can ad. But I do want to say that you are a very loving husband. When she is ready she will do it. It took me years to be ready. Family especially my husband stopped saying things because it just made me furious and then a huge figh followed. I hope your Thanks giving was good. She is a lucky lady!

Hey guys how are you doing? Are you finding this year harder or easier when it comes to the holidays. I still want to eat all the appitizers and deserts, but I know that I'd better not or else pb here we come! Stuffing has been a problem for me in the past few days. I haven't eaten anywhere near what I used to, but picking is still a hard thing to stop.

I went from a 48 DDD to a 34 G! I do have back pain and neck pain but and I have gone to the Chiro many times and the PT. My problem now is that my port hurts all the time. I have made an appointment to see my band Dr in a few weeks, which I need to do anyway. But when I made the appointment the girl said sounds like you need a PS. I am 35 pounds away from where I would be happy to be. I went from 268 to last check 189.5. So my questions is.. Is this to soon? Should I wait till I am closer to my goal? How small should I go? What is the best way to find a surgeon? Thanks for your feed back and help.

Kathy your cracking me up!! LOL I think you guys are right a C will be good. DH got me a tee shirt years ago that has all kinds of shapes and sizes I'll try to take a picture of it and put it on here for you all...lol...I plan on bringing it with me the next time I see my PCP to ask him what he thinks he will just crack up. Maybe I'll wear it to our next get together!!

It is such a learning thing. And as you know somedays you can eat a lot more than other days. I rely on my watch and portion size. For instance I will take a chicken cutlet and cut it in half to make it thin but still the same size width wize. I will take a few veggies and some tye of starch if I have it here. I eat all of the chicken and by the time I am finished with that I usually have taken 20 minutes and I'm no longer hungry. I may have a bite of the veggies and starch but thats about it. BUT if I get hiccups at anytime during the meal I slow way down or stop because a PB will come if I don't. Everyone is differen't and you really have to listen to your body and relearn.

Hey Anne Welcome, Dont worry your not long winded on here. I know of people who have had under 40 BMI's and been approved for the band. It is a tough one and you may have to fight for it, but don't give up. I felt the same way you do about the RNY surgery. To me it just wasn't worth it. I am just a few days shy of 14 months with my band. It is the best thing I have ever done in my life. It is no picnic though. The head stuff and why we eat is something that we all have to deal with, I think for life. Best of luck to you and please keep us posted on how things go.

Well the tree got up yesterday I still have boxes out but I am exhausted! In-laws left and now it's just us and Mommom here. I ate to much stuffing and apple pie! Today I only had liquids until around 6 then I ate left over's and a piece of pie and 2 ww chocolates. Tuesday I go to lapband Dr I haven't seen him since the begging of Sept. I know the scale isn't going to be great there because Tom is coming on Saturday if he is on schedule like he usually is! So Saturday when he arrives I will be flying to Cancun! Did I tell you guys? My sister is taking me. We will be wined and dined for 4 days they are paying for everything! I'm so excited! I just wish I'd have a few hours with DH before I leave but he's gone again all week and not coming home until late Friday night. Mommom leaves on Tuesday. We have had such a nice time. As I've said before she is incredible! My MIL is17 yrs younger and you'd think she was the 98 year old! And she eats like you can't believe! We all need to take lessons from her! She eats so much fruit..WOW..I've never heard of anyone that eats healthier than her! Well I'm hoping that tomorrow and Monday I can eat really good so I go down for my appointment on Tuesday. You know me and the scale I always freak out about it. Speaking of that have any of you seen the show Thin on HBO? Sherry-I love that you sing while on line. Does anyone ever join in? That is just great! Don't feel bad about the wrapping I haven't started shopping yet and I'm already out of $! Darcy-I'm like you I can't do the Black Friday thing either. I say I want to then I quickly change my mind never have and most likely never will! Betty-I'm so sorry about your pb! I hate that feeling! Eileen-I'm sorry your sick again! What a bummer! Feel better. Cindy-Happy Birthday yesterday! Sorry I missed you!:happybday2: Beanie-WOW what a mess you had! DH actually fixed it yesterday. I couldn't believe it. he dug up the area where the leak was and found the problem and fixed it..yay!! So I left a message for the plumber not to come on Monday. What a mess you have though! I'm so sorry. Cass-I'm glad your feeling better. Take it slow on Monday be careful. Mandy- Is there no chance I can get a dvr/vcr recorder for 99 anymore? That is the only thing I was looking for a deal on and I couldn't find it/ What store did you get it at? Do you have any suggestions for me? What kind did you get? We have so many movies and I want to put them on a DVD. You sure are the professional shopper! Good for you! Kat-LOL I feel the same why about my computer when DH touches it! He can fix major things in the house but when it comes to my computer...watch out! Have a good night.

Wow you have done wonderful! Congratulations!

I just recieved this email and I was confused... nothing here is shutting down, sorry for the confusion. and thank God.

Wow sorry to hear about this. Did your surgeon come and help you or was it an er Dr? I have never heard of the Water test before please fill me in.

Well I'm exhausted! I'm sure you all are too. It was a very nice day. Ate to much, but, it was Thanksgiving. If I hadn't made baked brie I wold have been ok. I'm off to bed I sure hope you all had a wonderful day. I prayed for all of you this morning. Pat sorry you had to stay home. Hope you feel better quick. Do you want me to pick up the tree and meet you on 77 somewhere..lol.BTW where is that tree from. I picked up a nice one at costco tomorrow we will put it up. Well night night hope I'll be able to pop in tomorrow. Company is all here until Saturday.

what a cutie! I'm going to bed in a few minutes it's been a long hard day! Hope you all had a good one

I like the perky idea. What size do you think? I spoke with my aunt tonight who had inplants and she says a B is perfect she is a c/d. She says the older you get the less boobs you want!

3 times I have asked DD and DH to get me 1 orange just 1 so that I could make my sweet potato casserol and be done with it and a total of 5 visits to the store I still don't have my freakin orange..lol.. Eileen feel better sorry I never even got that recipe! night night..

Well I went to PCP yesterday and as you saw on Saturday Kathy, became emotional. This was good though he needs to see how nuts I am. He referred me to a PS he said that there are only 2 in Charlotte that he would recommend. One of them is about 6 miles from home so I went in and made an appointment. I'll be going on Dec 18th for my first consult. He also told me that it should be covered no problem by the insurance. As far as boobs getting smaller, for me no they haven't. I was a 48 DDD and stayed DDD until about a 38 then went to a FF until now 34G when the band goes down the cup goes up. Very confusing I think. Beanie I don't think I could find a sports bra comfortable enough to sleep in. Walmart doesn't go much past D's. The reduction idea is getting more comfortable everyday due to the fact that I'm getting more uncomfortable! I'll keep you posted.

WOW you've done great! And welcome to LBT. I have pain and recently discovered that it has to due with my bra. The wire pressing down which in turn presses down on my port. I am looking into a reduction. If your surgeon is suggesting moving the port, why wouldn't you want to do that. I know more surgery stinks, however it might just solve your problem. Good luck and agian welcome

Perhaps you are eating to fast. With my last fill I now have to give myself a full 30 minutes to eat a meal! It really gets long sometimes, but it is not worth messing my insides up.

Well I went to the Dr. yesterday. I'm down 4 pounds in 4 weeks according to his scale! We talked for a while and he has referred me to a PS for a reduction. He said it will help my back pain and everything else. He said the insurance shouldn't give me a hard time at all. So on the 18th I go meet with the surgeon. I will go for a consult with another one he referred me to also. He said there are only 2 in Charlotte that he would recommend. The one is about 6 miles from my house so that is the one I have an appointment with not he 18th. I have mixed feeling but I know I really need to take care of this! Mommom just goes and goes! I'm an old lady compared to her..urgh..did I tell you guys about our water main breaking! We have had a horrible storm her yesterday and today so the plumber won't be able to come until Monday. I just hope and pray that the contraption that DH made holds out until then! Well Have a wonderful Thanksgiving tomorrow. I'm not sure if I will be able to drop in here so I want you all to know I'm thankful to each and every one of you. I know I haven't done a personal to all of you, but I'm thinking of you...Gobble gobble.. Cassandra-Welcome to Bandland! Please call your Dr. Keep walking and rest. Betty-I'm with you on the shopping, although I've never done it before, I have no desire to do it. The head stuff does stink! Maybe someday we can figure out how to change that! Kat-She is really a lot of fun and so helpful. She does stuff when she feels awake enough. She's chopped all the onions made chicken salad, she's making pea soup today, she is amazing. My MIL is coming today she is 79 and so helpless. They are like night and day! It is going to be interesting. Lucy is a blast! she just makes us smile and laugh all the time. Right now her and Sandy are playing they are so cute. I can't believe you have all your cards done already!!! Chrispy-Enjoy your non cooling break!! Eileen-That was cute! Jules-I have never done cheese cake. My sister once won a contest for here's being so good. Beanie-I'm so happy for you! I can't wait to see you ticker changed

WOW GUYS I AM SOOO EXCITED! I'M LATE TO BE READING THIS BUT NOW I FEEL LIKE DANCE..YIPPIEEE IO FOR BEANIE....I AM SO HAPPY FOR YOU...WOWEEEE...CONGRATULATIONS ON YOU MINI GOAL...YOU MADE IT BEFORE CHRISTMAS YOU ARE DOING FANTASTIC! I'M SO HAPPY FOR YOU I AM DANCING SMILING AND SINGING PRAISES FOR YOU!!! AHH Mandy your rock star is so cute. AND YOU LOOK FABULOUS!! How much have you lost..I forgot if it said..and how long has it taken you? I think your right about drinking a lot of water! I think it helps a lot with the skin! I bet your stir crazy too! Hang in there. Hey Jan- You are a total inspiration! You are doing so well and your attitude is fantastic. It's good to see you back and glad to hear your feeling better. Betty-I didn't realize that you weren't doing good! I'm sorry. It is so hard at times! Urgh! I get so bored with food! I'm getting sick of my morning PS, but I really don't like anything else for breakfast. I guess it's just life..sigh...Hang in there. You'll do better this year. When I was at the grocery store today I thought about buying some stuff to make cookies, you know for the kids...and told myself that I know I can't handle that stuff in the house, and I walked away. So I guess no baking for me this year. Hugs Patty- Glad your feeling better. Cassandra-Thinking of you..welcome to Bandland! Eileen-Yes I'm going for anxiety and to discuss my crying, and witchiness! I am on a medication that seemed to help in the beginning. I'm not sure if I need more or if I'm just nuts! I'll let you know tomorrow when I get back. Glad to hear DD is better. Hey Jules- Welcome to NJ..lol..Band life is great! Mary-It sure sounds like your and the boys had a nice time. Sorry about the car. Cindy-Hi, are you still having fun dusting? Well thank you all for your sweet comments about Mommom, DGM, everyone calls her Mommom so you can too! What a lady. We went to get her acrylic nails today. She said at my age why not!! She cracked me up when we were leaving she said I can't believe how many of these saloons there are now a days! SALOONS...remember she's from Norway and has a real cute accent. Anyway I knew that she was getting some flowers, and we got home and I opened the front door only to find a massive about of water and a water fall coming out from under my dining room window! Well you all know I'm on the verge of a nervous breakdown so this is not a good situation!! Anyway to make a long story short. I got the man across the street to come over and turn off the main valve by the road. The main broke and that's why 8 million gallons of water is on my yard! Well DH is on the phone and telling me that he that everything is going to be ok! He went to Lowes and brought some kind of valve and connected it to our neighbors house and now we have water! I also found out from my friend that they had the same thing happen this summer and it cost them under $300 to fix, I was thinking thousands! PRAISE THE LORD!!! So I have a call into the Plummer that takes AMEX..lol..and hopefully he will be able to come out tomorrow or Wednesday and fix us up. I really wanted a drink to relax but I'm so anal about the scale and tomorrow I go see my PCP that I didn't have one! Anyway we had friends over to celebrate Mommoms birthday. She loves this couple and she was so thrilled that they came and we had such a nice night for her. She brings tears to my eyes, tears of joy. Have a good night and I'll see ya'll tomorrow

Thanks Kelli, Thats what I hear from everyone that I talk to about it.

I feel bad I don't have one of Sandy recently I will have to get one and post it. She is our Sweetie!