sunshine125

I am going through the same situation as you. My husband says he is supportive but his actions don't show it. He also make comments about me finding someone else and leaving him and that has not crossed my mind. I think it is his own insecurities that have him feeling that way. You just have to focus on yourself and your goals that you are trying to reach he will come along on his own don't let him sabotage what you are doing. Because once I stopped feeding into his insecurities he stopped saying those things. I am down 70lbs from my surgery and he is not use to me looking like this or getting the attention that I am getting and also he has picked up a few pounds himself so they just want us to feel down because they are but don't let him do it. You keep up the good work.