shway

Hi there, I had my surgery (Roux en Y gastric bypass) on October 29, 2014 with Dr. George Fielding in NYC at NYU Tisch. I had a bunch of pre-op medical issues that made me decide to get my lap band removed (5 years and no results) and converted to a gastric bypass. I am having a very hard time post-op with things such as: - taking supplements - dumping syndrome - following nutrition guidelines - severe GI symptoms (nausea, pain, spasms, etc.) - extreme fatigue and difficulty functioning I have seen my surgeon several times post op as well as the bariatric nutritionist they have on board. They've given some guidance but not addressed all the issues adequately. Also I've found it very difficult to implement their suggestions. I have a therapist and nutritionist who I see regularly. I haven't been able to ask them for the support I need because of a lot of emotional, physical, and psychological obstacles. I am really hoping and praying that I can find buddies and a mentor over here. I've been reading through the forums and this feels like a very safe and supportive community to me. Interacting and working with other people who have had this surgery feels like it would help me tremendously because sometimes it's a little easier to discuss openly/honestly what my struggles are with someone who is in a similar position. I imagine that there will be less shame and guilt for me than when I talk about my concerns/struggles with someone who doesn't have personal experience with such a surgery. If you are able to provide me any support/guidance as a buddy or mentor I would be very grateful. I am happy to support you back however I am able to. Please contact me through BariatricPal and id be happy to give my contact info. I'm open to both men and women. Age doesn't matter to me either. Someone in the NYC-NJ-CT area would be great because then there's the opportunity to meet in person but I would love to connect with anyone regardless of location. Thank you and be well, Shway

Hi Dana, Thank you for your wishes. I am looking for buddies as well - other people on this journey who I can connect with to share stories, experience, and just be there for each other. If you are interested please let me know. If not, no problem good luck to you as well. - Shway